fh hurt my feelings.............

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Posted by teenigrrl

BTW, I looked at your album, your dress is gorgeous!! You look absolutely fantastic in it. To me, you don't look like you need to lose anything.

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thank you !!!!!!! bunches.................

Idiots... boys... jealous co-workers...

What I wouldnt give to be 130!!!

I am 5' 10' and One hundred lsdkfjdkfj pounds...

When FH and I met 7 years ago, it was in college when I was playing sports, I was like 30 lbs thinner and had freakin abs of steal, now I have flabs of steal...

Dont worry, I looked at your pics and you are gorgeous... and THIN!

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Posted by catsgirl

when i met him i weighed 95 lb. that was 6yrs. ago. now i weigh 130 lb. well i was laying on the couch and he said my tummy looks like i am pregnant. i know i got chubby but did he half to say that....... i am already self concious, this girl i work with always says something mean every time i eat something, like uhh your hips dont need that,, i am ready to just starve myself, i have been so down over this, anybody else feel blah from the way they look lately?

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I wish I was 130lbs.!!!!!!!!!!! Mary MOB

130 is not heavy at all! I feel bleh about my self but then I remember that I'm happy and if I wanted to change I would change for myself and not anyone else!



ps hope this makes you laugh... i have a six roll

hold on a second...how tall are you?? Unless you're 4'5, I don't see how 130lbs could get you fat jokes people are crazy....it's crazy the effect the media has on people..

i feel blah like that every day hon...

I have to agree with everyone, 130 is still TINY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Please do not start to get down on yourself & take that from someone who has been down on herself for 30 plus years... Once you slide down that slope - it's a VERY long process to get back up..

If you need to talk - FM...really.. I 100% know what you are going through.

I wish I still weighed 130!

#1 I would have slapped him in the face! lol Boys just don't think sometimes.
#2 130 is a great weight and you should just tell ur coworker to mind her own business and that it bothers you when she comments on what you're eating.

130 lbs is tiny!!! your FH prolly just thought he was kidding around and wouldn't hurt your feeling, but you have to tell him that it does! I know when my FH does it to me, I say it right back! lol

And as for your co-worker! I wanna kick her @$$!!! how dare she speak to you that way!

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Posted by DnellD809

I wish I still weighed 130!

#1 I would have slapped him in the face! lol Boys just don't think sometimes.
#2 130 is a great weight and you should just tell ur coworker to mind her own business and that it bothers you when she comments on what you're eating.

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yeah she is like 5'9' and 100 lbs, i almost asked her yesterday if her bras were bullet proof with all that padding, but i just cant be mean, dammit why am i soo nice.

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Posted by AMGBride2008

Did you tell him how much he hurt your feelings?!?! I'm sure he didn't mean it in a mean way... FH is always grabbing my belly, and it annoys me, but before I lash out and bite his head off, I try and remember that he's just being affectionate.... not trying to tell me that he thinks my belly is fat.

As for your coworker... I would totally have a few choice words for her... don't be afraid to tell her to shut her mouth and mind her business.. do NOT justify what you eat or how you live you life by what someone you barely know says to you.... IMO, people like that are so unhappy that in order to make themselves feel better they have to make other people feel like sh!t.

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Well said!

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Posted by catsgirl

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Posted by DnellD809

I wish I still weighed 130!

#1 I would have slapped him in the face! lol Boys just don't think sometimes.
#2 130 is a great weight and you should just tell ur coworker to mind her own business and that it bothers you when she comments on what you're eating.

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yeah she is like 5'9' and 100 lbs, i almost asked her yesterday if her bras were bullet proof with all that padding, but i just cant be mean, dammit why am i soo nice.

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Good for you for being the bigger person and not saying it but WOW that'd be funny!

yeah she is like 5'9' and 100 lbs, i almost asked her yesterday if her bras were bullet proof with all that padding, but i just cant be mean, dammit why am i soo nice.

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i would LOVE to say something like that, but i'm the same way, i'm too nice. it would have been hysterical if you did say that though

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Posted by dancinmyazoff

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Posted by AMGBride2008

Did you tell him how much he hurt your feelings?!?! I'm sure he didn't mean it in a mean way... FH is always grabbing my belly, and it annoys me, but before I lash out and bite his head off, I try and remember that he's just being affectionate.... not trying to tell me that he thinks my belly is fat.

As for your coworker... I would totally have a few choice words for her... don't be afraid to tell her to shut her mouth and mind her business.. do NOT justify what you eat or how you live you life by what someone you barely know says to you.... IMO, people like that are so unhappy that in order to make themselves feel better they have to make other people feel like sh!t.

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Well said!

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I totally agree. Not only is it completely unprofessional of your coworker to criticize and comment your physical appearance, its RUDE! She def seems to have some confidence problems! I know it is easier said than done but try not to let insensitive comments like that get to you and remember that you are beautiful!

I would be hurt, especially with respect to the coworker. I'm 5'4 and FH has seen my weight fluctuate a lot due to health reasons. Prob around 110 when we met (skinner than usual because I was sick the summer before) up to 120, then down to <100 when I was in the hospital for a month, and up to a max of 130. I'm now around 125.

FH was a varsity athlete in HS and college and is into working out but I don't really exercise at all. He's said to me that I should work out more to be healthy but never really told me I was fat -- I'm a little flabby and could be in better shape but I'm not FAT and neither are you. He says he's looking out for my health and I know he's right, I should work out more... but it doesn't feel great to hear it. I don't think he meant any harm though.



I just looked at your pix and I don't see a tummy at all.. you look amazing. I hope you arent going to try to get down < 100 again.