Haven't been on in a while, FH has been in ICU since Thursday He has severe pneumonia in both lungs. It started as a cold, then went to asthmatic bronchtis, and a few hours later we were in the ER with pneumonia that spread to both lungs. He is on an oxygen machine that is giving him 80% oxygen; he was only getting 87% without it, versus 98%, but when he takes the mask off his number drops dramatically; he is only getting about 91% now as it is with the machine. He is getting steroids, antibiotics, nebulizer treatmens and albuterol therapy. The DR told him, because he was threatening to sign himself out, that if he left with such little oxygen in his body, he would not make it back in time for them to save him He is trying to be strong, but I think that this has scared the s hit out of him. He is quitting cold turkey from smoking right now and it is tough to say the least. He has some damage to his lungs already from smoking, but we don't how much until the pneumonia clears up and they run some tests, plus his DR wants to make sure that there's nothing else like cancer, or lung disease. He is so miserable right now and I am beside myself. I haven't slept more than 3 hours a night since Thursday and barely leave the hospital to shower and come back; tonight is the first night I am sleeping at home because I got my period there and NEED to rest. FMIL is flying in tomorrow night, which will be a big help. He refuses to let his friends even visit and he won't let me pull up the shade in the room to look out the window because it depresses him so much. I know he will be OK, but he is being so stubborn and can't seem to understand that his life really was/is at risk and that he HAS to stay and get better. I can't give him what he's getting there at home.
Please just say a prayer or send some healing vibes our way--I really need them. Thanks girls
IrishBrideASmiling
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Aww im soo sorry to hear all this! My thoughts and prayers are with you and FH. FM me if you need someone to vent to!
Im a Pepper
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I'm so sorry to hear that! your FH and family are in my prayers. Wishing him a speedy recovery!
longislandlibrarian
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OH MY GOOOOODNESS~!!! I AM SOOO SORRRRRRY THAT YOU ARE DEALING WITH THIS! I am sending you good vibes. I hope FH gets better soon!!!!!!!!! I am glad you have convinced him not to be stubborn and keep himself in the hospital.
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MrsDrinkh20
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Oh my goodness Heather. I am so sorry that this is happening to you. Sounds like this has been a really difficult couple of days for you. I hope that your FH is doing better. It is so hard to get people to realize that they have to let people take care of them sometimes. I see it now with FH and he only has the FLU! They dont want to look weak but they have to realize this is what we are here for...to help and in your FHs case, he needs to let the docs do their job. Take it easy, get some rest and don't worry about lung disease or cancer until you have to. It will be ok. I will be sending happy thoughts your way! We live close by one another so let me know if you need anything!
AugustBridein09
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OMG I am SO Sorry!
yngcpl92203
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Stay strong you Best wishes to fh he will get better soon,
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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omgggg i am shocked hun!!! soooo very sorry to her about your fh... very scary situation and i cant even begin to imagine what u 2 must be going through.... I know i'd be absolutely lost without fh...
i will send some prayers your way!
panjay
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Omg, I'm so sorry to hear this, I will send good thoughts your way!
meshelly
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thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cacarina
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OMG, I am so sorry you and FH are going through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and FH.
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omg..stay strong, he will get better soon. vibes are being sent as i type...i hope you are doing ok, i know its hard that he is sick, but try to take care of yourself too...
dazies1011
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OMG Heather I am soo sorry to hear this. My prayers are with you and FH.
LnF0405
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I am so sorry that you and your FH are going through this I am sending you good vibes and he is going to be on my prayers tonight...
Nelle5757
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I am so sorry and hope everything works out. You will be in my thoughts. Stay strong.
MRSin2009
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I am so sorry to hear he is so sick. I hope he feels better soon!!!!!
ellyoxox
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for your fh. i hope he gets better soon!!
crazeee18
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im sooo sorry to hear that...i will def pray for him tonite