Everytime i want to go to a RH to check it out .. it is like PULLING TEETH from my FH!!! hes so difficult!!! maybe because i dragged him to so many places (lol).... but i cant help but feel like that cant be good if i have to beg and fight for him to come with me!!!!! ahhhhh
MrsG2011
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dont put to much pressure - esp if you just got engaged - i dont know if you want a specific date but i would wait after the holidays to start looking - enjoy this time and dont rush any decisions!
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weve been engaged for OVER A YEAR ..LOL!! i think that he is just sick of me pestering him for the last year and always changing my mind and never being satisfied with the places that we go see... i guess its all my fault!!! lol
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this is why i drag all my friends w me to 'just look' and if i really love it then I will bring him back. So far I avent gotten him to go to any! (but I have only fell in love with one place and neither of us have been able to get a clear schedule to go)
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How many places have you seen? Also is he looking for any particular place? Tell him to make a list of places he likes.
My FH and I both cant deal with visiting places... We really only looked at two places one being Oheka before we made a decision we didn't want to look any further.
A friend of mine visited 30 RH before she made a decision. It does take time and lots of energy.
Good luck and we are all here to help.
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go without him. I dragged DH with me.. but a lot of them he wanted to go to. but after #16 he was like.. 'its the next one or one we went to already'
I went with #17 (and shouldn't have) just tell him its YOUR wedding.. as in THE TWO OF YOU and that he should really try and get involved. is he footing the bill? because you can hold that over his head...
'if you dont go with me, i'll pick something VERY expensive'.
it works
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I went without my FH, and narrowed it down to only a couple. Then he had no problem checking out the few. Try that. It's more fun taking your girls to see a million of them. I did it a few times and made it a girls day out.
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Posted by ooxrosaliexoo
weve been engaged for OVER A YEAR ..LOL!! i think that he is just sick of me pestering him for the last year and always changing my mind and never being satisfied with the places that we go see... i guess its all my fault!!! lol
i didnt take Shaun until we were signing the contract... my mom came with me
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My FH used to get like that! Lol but what i did was wait about a week or two before i booked appts... Then i did like 2 in one day so he was in the mood & it gave us a chance to Compare... I just told him he needs to dedicate at least one weekend to it.. Then we eventually found the one! I guess dont overwhelm him & take it easy... My fh hates shopping & girly girl stuff but after we went to a few places he started liking it.. He will come around!! Lol Good luck!!!
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some guys just don't care about that stuff
i agree with what some of the other girls said, go alone or go with a friend to narrow it down
you don't want the process to be annoying if FH is unhappy
i visited a few without him, it was fine
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me and FH went to about 8 but that was his limit lol..maybe do as the other girls said and narrow down the list yourself and then bring him to your top 3 places or something
CantWaitMrsH
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Why not scope out some places on your own or with a friend, family member ... then take him to those that you LOVE! It can get daunting!
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Posted by Im_My_Own_Princess
'if you dont go with me, i'll pick something VERY expensive'.
it works
LMAO!!!! hed kill me!
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go first and if you love it take him back with you.
if he isn't into it - roll with that. FH's who want say in things ruin the fun for you anyways lol
MrsG2011
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Posted by ooxrosaliexoo
weve been engaged for OVER A YEAR ..LOL!! i think that he is just sick of me pestering him for the last year and always changing my mind and never being satisfied with the places that we go see... i guess its all my fault!!! lol
