***FH IS PISSED OFF***

Fh's mother and I don't get along very well. I've told the story before. So, I started compiling the addresses for our guest list so that I can send out our STD's. Fh took his family list and gave it to his mom to fill in. It's been almost a month and nothing yet. He has asked her 3 times to no avail.

He said he will try to go another route but it will take so much longer and more headaches. Now, his mother really doesn't talk to him because he is with me.

It doesn't seem like he is going to get it?

Any suggestions!!

I know this is a tough one but any advice would be better then none.

But, I feel so bad for him because he wants his family to enjoy his day with him.

TIA

does he have any aunts/uncles that are like a big deal in the family? im sure you could contact them for the names and addresses in an innocent manner and they will give you all that you need (that was my trick)

We are going to try that next! I figured if we could get 2 or 3 other family members they could put the pieces together for us.

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Posted by tinadansr

that's stinks... what about an aunt or cousin can they help with a list?

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For some reason, she seems to be a 'GOD' when it comes to the family. They listen to everything that she says. IDIOTS!! She is really something else. We will definitely try a different avenue of contact

i would give the invitations to her and let her be responsible for sending them! or like the post before mine said you could just get together with a close relative of his and have them help you.

i know this can be difficult. i was in a similar situation.

Awww. . . that's sad. I would be po'd too if I was FH. . . has he tried to talk to his mom about his feelings? Man. . .that is tough.

Yea, I would say try to get in touch with any other relatives to see if they can help you guys out.