FH is working my LAST nerve VENT!!!!!!!!

He has been playing softball since 8:00 this morning. His game ends at 3:30 and I have an apt. with the real estate agent at 4:30. He said he can't make it because he told me to change the day (I couldn't because of the other homeowners). Now, he has to shower and get dressed and it will conveneintly take him an hour!!!

He wants no part of ANYTHING!!!! I told him he should plan the rest of the wedding since he can't help with a house. He said call it off for that matter!!!!!! UGH!!!! He knows just how to get me PI$$ED!! I don't mind if he plays, but sometimes he has to prioritize.

See....where is that bride hitting the groom over the head with a rolling pin EMOT-ICON when you need it?

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Posted by SN2BMRSBURTE

See....where is that bride hitting the groom over the head with a rolling pin EMOT-ICON when you need it?

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I should make one. For now I will pretend this is him

Sorry to hear that. I totally undestand.

We were originally going to have the guys wear guybera shirts(their cuban style). The once I decided on the girls dresses, the mens shirts seemed to casual. So, I found suits they can wear (khaki linen/silk). I loved them. I sent FH a pic on the phone and he said 'whatever you want, babe'.
Yesterday I brought him to see them and he said 'I thought we were going casual.' Well, I thought it's 'whatever I wanted'. Ugg!
I hate it when they care one day and not the next.

Sorry to hear you're having a rough day.

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Posted by heatherandrichie

Sorry to hear that. I totally undestand.

We were originally going to have the guys wear guybera shirts(their cuban style). The once I decided on the girls dresses, the mens shirts seemed to casual. So, I found suits they can wear (khaki linen/silk). I loved them. I sent FH a pic on the phone and he said 'whatever you want, babe'.
Yesterday I brought him to see them and he said 'I thought we were going casual.' Well, I thought it's 'whatever I wanted'. Ugg!
I hate it when they care one day and not the next.

Sorry to hear you're having a rough day.

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Yeah, 'Whatever you want, babe' is his signature saying. Whatever you want babe as long as I agree and it doesn't interfere with me me me me me!!!!!!!! Guys have worse mood swings than women. Don't even tell him anything. The day of your wedding hand him his clothes and tell him to wear them or go NAKED!!!

Don't you hate that!
'Whatever you want' is such a cop out!!!

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Posted by leenie75

Don't you hate that!
'Whatever you want' is such a cop out!!!

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Sure is!

Oh yeah, I can definitely relate. My FH drives me nuts. Sometimes I find myself wondering why the heck I'm marrying him.

When it comes to the wedding stuff you have to do whatever makes you happy. He freaks at the prices of things. There are some things that I'll skimp on, but there are others that I wont. So if he doesn't want to be included in the wedding plans, then he'll just have to pay $$$$ for it in another way.

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Posted by SuzArtie69

Oh yeah, I can definitely relate. My FH drives me nuts. Sometimes I find myself wondering why the heck I'm marrying him.

When it comes to the wedding stuff you have to do whatever makes you happy. He freaks at the prices of things. There are some things that I'll skimp on, but there are others that I wont. So if he doesn't want to be included in the wedding plans, then he'll just have to pay $$$$ for it in another way.

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awww sorry he is stressing you out ~ men CANNOT multi task... Too many appointments in one day they cannot handle

Thanks for listening. He won't even pick up the phone for me. UGH!!!!!!!!! Maybe some of you remember my recent post with my FMIL's dress and the FG dresses and the whole money issue. We weren't speaking for days and days. Now, it happened again. Just when things were going well, we're back to not speaking. I hope we are before the wedding or it's gonna be a quiet ceremony!

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Posted by SN2BMRSBURTE

See....where is that bride hitting the groom over the head with a rolling pin EMOT-ICON when you need it?

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