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FH phone was ringing at 4am!

Windy Posted:

FH phone was ringing at 4am!

It rang twice with a private number and he didnt answer it! I'm really annoyed today - who the fcuk was calling him at 4am? He says i'm acting 'crazy' - but I dont think I am. What do u think? Would u be annoyed?
luvly73 Posted:

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yea i would be more than annoyed

Panamasweet Posted:

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I would be extremley pissed but I would have answered the phone myself

KrisD72310 Posted:

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I'd answer it next time, if that ever happens again!! And yes, I'd be annoyed.

bluj786 Posted:

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i would be annoyed, and i would have answered it.

JoanneAndJustin Posted:

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I wouldn't be annoyed unless he was already giving me a reason to be annoyed. (i.e., I was already suspecting something).

NYYankeeGirl72 Posted:

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Actually, FH supervises security personnel at a few locations for his part-time job, so it is not so uncommon for him to get a call in the middle of the night. Especially when someone calls in sick. I feel bad for him, but I just go back to sleep.
Fruitloop Posted:

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Aww I probably would've answered it myself by the 2nd call lol.

But it's better not to jump to conclusions or accuse him of anything.. my ex-bf from when I was 19 likes to drunk dial in the middle of the night ... I haven't talked to him in over 3 years (and I haven't seen him in about 5 years), but every now and then he calls in the middle of the night- i don't answer but FH flips out. I understand why he would be mad (b/c I wouldn't want anyone calling him in the middle of the night) but at the same time I didn't do anything wrong....
halfbaked Posted:

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Honestly, I think you're over reacting. It was probably a wrong number or something. I trust FH enough that my mind would definitely not jump to conclusions like that!

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marinai7 Posted:

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Maybe it was a wrong number?

Diana508 Posted:

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Actually, that happened to me once a few months into our relationship, except he picked up.

I wasn't annoyed at him bc I trust him completely. I was annoyed at whoever thought it was necessary. I think it was his ex who seems to linger.
GR2010 Posted:

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I would just be annoyed that it woke me up. (I like my sleep!!! LOL!!) If it happens again just pick it up and if no one is there just turn the ringer off.

grkbarbie Posted:

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if hes done something in the past then yea u should be pissed. i mean... everyones situation is different. thats something u should address to him...but CALMLY

bigsal Posted:

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It might have been a wrong number.

Jessica612 Posted:

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I think that fact he didnt answer would get me crazy pissed off I feel if there is nothing to hide pick up I would see if it happens again and you answer next time

JAAMS Posted:

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No, I wouldn't be annoyed unless I was suspecting something for other reasons. Everyone gets wrong numbers on occasion. Plus I know many people, including myself, who don't answer numbers that they don't know.

Nina1010 Posted:

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Posted by grkbarbie

if hes done something in the past then yea u should be pissed. i mean... everyones situation is different. thats something u should address to him...but CALMLY



ITA...I would be annoyed that someone called that late... but would give the benefit of the doubt.
MrsSoto Posted:

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fh is like that, i would be annoyed too. if im not answering a private number during the day, its one thing, cuz i just think its a wrong number or someone who i dont want to speak to but during the night...it very well could be the same situation but i could completely understand why you would be like just answer it and say its a wrong number and if he wouldnt you would be annoyed

luvly73 Posted:

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Posted by Jessica612

I think that fact he didnt answer would get me crazy pissed off I feel if there is nothing to hide pick up I would see if it happens again and you answer next time



yea this is the thing that raises the flag for me and why it would piss me off, not because he just got a call at that time of the morning but the fact that he didn't answer, if it were my phone that was ringing I would want to know who was calling me at that time
JAAMS Posted:

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The call might have not even been from this time zone though, so since it was private, you don't really know if it's a wrong number from across the coast or something

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