FH picking groomsmen...

anyone elses FH putting it off...

i have asked all my BMs...

FH hasnt asked anyone - we got engaged in SEPTEMBER! and he is getting mad at me for reminding him... he just keeps putting it off.. and 2 of the GM are my brother (who he sees just about everyday and his step brother) I said 'what are you going to do wait til the day before?' - he didnt like that

I want to choke him!

my FH is the SAME way!!!! And I want to buy cute little toasting flutes for all our BP before they stop selling them - they have to be personalized so I'm like, 'babe, make up your mind and ASK them already!!!!!!!!!!!!!'

Ugh! I feel you Gina!

My FH WOULD BE the same way, if I didn't practically force it down his throat. That was the first thing we did, and I made him do it. I asked my girls, and he asked the rest a couple of weeks later.

It helped that I asked 2 of his because we have 2 couples, and I asked the girl for both of them.... lol.

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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

my FH is the SAME way!!!! And I want to buy cute little toasting flutes for all our BP before they stop selling them - they have to be personalized so I'm like, 'babe, make up your mind and ASK them already!!!!!!!!!!!!!'

Ugh! I feel you Gina!

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thanks Jenn!! Im glad its not just me. Why do they have to be such a problem.. meantime weare doing most of the work!

FH knows who he wants he is just procrastinating on doing it.. and that makes me mad. I know it can be kinda hard to ask, trying to ask and make it sould nice, but seriously.. get on with it!

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Posted by AmandaLynn04

My FH WOULD BE the same way, if I didn't practically force it down his throat. That was the first thing we did, and I made him do it. I asked my girls, and he asked the rest a couple of weeks later.

It helped that I asked 2 of his because we have 2 couples, and I asked the girl for both of them.... lol.

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oh good for you!!!

I wish ours were couples then i would jsut do it!!! The other night we were at a party at his Best friends GF house. most of her friends had left and it was jsut us and them. I told FH to ask him then... and he told me it was an innappropriate time... HUH? so mad!

Same here...FH procrastinates on EVERYTHING! none of his friends knew they were in it...until I told them they had to be at our e-party...lol
He still hasn't actually asked any of them...

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Posted by Super2star

Same here...FH procrastinates on EVERYTHING! none of his friends knew they were in it...until I told them they had to be at our e-party...lol
He still hasn't actually asked any of them...

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seriously... what is the problem? i think i might just do it for him.. im tired of it haha

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Posted by jgl

anyone elses FH putting it off...

i have asked all my BMs...

FH hasnt asked anyone - we got engaged in SEPTEMBER! and he is getting mad at me for reminding him... he just keeps putting it off.. and 2 of the GM are my brother (who he sees just about everyday and his step brother) I said 'what are you going to do wait til the day before?' - he didnt like that

I want to choke him!

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I feeel you anger. I asked my FH since April to pick 4 GM. We're now in July and he hasn't given me ONE name.

I argue with him all the time - and he says I'll do it, I'll do it - but he doesnt.

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Posted by jgl

anyone elses FH putting it off...

i have asked all my BMs...

FH hasnt asked anyone - we got engaged in SEPTEMBER! and he is getting mad at me for reminding him... he just keeps putting it off.. and 2 of the GM are my brother (who he sees just about everyday and his step brother) I said 'what are you going to do wait til the day before?' - he didnt like that

I want to choke him!

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This sounds exactly like my FH, except two GM's are HIS brothers...so the fact that he's waiting DOESN'T EVEN MAKE SENSE!!!

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Posted by TGs Lady 22908

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Posted by jgl

anyone elses FH putting it off...

i have asked all my BMs...

FH hasnt asked anyone - we got engaged in SEPTEMBER! and he is getting mad at me for reminding him... he just keeps putting it off.. and 2 of the GM are my brother (who he sees just about everyday and his step brother) I said 'what are you going to do wait til the day before?' - he didnt like that

I want to choke him!

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This sounds exactly like my FH, except two GM's are HIS brothers...so the fact that he's waiting DOESN'T EVEN MAKE SENSE!!!

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ya there is no excuse for that..

yea i had to bug my fh about this... he knew who he wanted to ask but kept forgetting every time we saw them- so i would gentily remind him (by kicking him in the a**- just kidding) lol

eventually he did it--- it was odd when i asked him what they said- only his best man was honored the rest just said yes like it wasnt a big deal- my bm all cried-- boys are weird

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Posted by akrasner

My FH has not asked yet either! He just doenst see what the rush is...

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girls you are making me feel so much better!! its not just my FH!!!