Ok, I love my FH. No doubt about it. I have for the last 5.5 years and I will for the rest of my life...but he is NO help when it comes to wedding planning. Actually he is an A$$hole sometimes. It hurts my feelings! I come home so excited with ideas or plans that I got from you guys here and he either acts like he couldn't care less or gets mad I am 'bothering him with this wedding crap'. I know he wants to be with me and get married to me and have kids and everything and I know he loves me but why can't he be more involved?
Soon2BeMrs
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im sorry alot of Fh are like this,,,they dont enjoy the planning as much as us girls do. Im not really sure what to say cause thankfully my FH loves it sometimes more than i do...but just tell him how him acting like this makes you feel...hopefully he will realize and change
SN2BMRSBURTE
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It's a 'Man Thing'... my FH is the same way. I actually cried about it a couple times...but then I realized that he is excited, we just show it diff then men do...besides...that's what we (LIW) are here for
He walks up behind me when I am on this site , and asks what I'm doing, I tell him talkin to my girls because I have to talk to SOMEBODY about the wedding stuff
Don't worry, he is just being....A MAN
OrangeGrl
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Posted by SN2BMRSBURTE
It's a 'Man Thing'... my FH is the same way. I actually cried about it a couple times...but then I realized that he is excited, we just show it diff then men do...besides...that's what we (LIW) are here for
He walks up behind me when I am on this site , and asks what I'm doing, I tell him talkin to my girls because I have to talk to SOMEBODY about the wedding stuff
Don't worry, he is just being....A MAN
Thanks! When he sees me on this site he says 'Who are you talking to?' and I say 'My wedding friends!!! people who give a crap about marrying someone!!' hahha
CASJLL
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Posted by MissMaster13
Ok, I love my FH. No doubt about it. I have for the last 5.5 years and I will for the rest of my life...but he is NO help when it comes to wedding planning. Actually he is an A$$hole sometimes. It hurts my feelings! I come home so excited with ideas or plans that I got from you guys here and he either acts like he couldn't care less or gets mad I am 'bothering him with this wedding crap'. I know he wants to be with me and get married to me and have kids and everything and I know he loves me but why can't he be more involved?
I know the feeling, except mine actually thinks he is involved and when something gets booked and I get a bunch done and ordered during a week he'll say 'we got so much done this week.' Um - WHO'S WE? lol
Men!
citycrab705
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i know how you feel, fh and i almost got into a fight because our wedding is in 5 weeks and he doesn't have a tux yet, we go to a place and he keeps saying well what do you want, he has no opinion whatsoever!!