FH VENT! (sorry its long)

I am getting so frustrated with FH! I've asked him a million times to please look at the guest list and finalize everyone's addresses. All except 2 people on my list are complete and they are technically not even 'my' guests, but my parents. But he has alot of family that we do not have addresses for.

I also discussed with FH a while ago about how FH is more comfortable in suits, and how we want the groomsmen to be in suits as well. Well we have an oot groomsmen (he lives in TX) and we wanted to go with a rental place that would be available in TX too (to ensure that they all choose the same suit). So we decided to stick with mens warehouse. Well MW doesnt rent suits, only tuxes. So FH brought up the fact that my girls have to buy their dresses which they probably will not wear again, but if the guys buy suits they can at least wear them somewhere else. So i tell him to contact his guys about it and of course the one guy that we are trying to be conscious of because of his OOT status, has to be like 'id rather rent a tux, its more economical'

I ask FH over and over again to take of these things and he still doesnt do anything. Because of his lack of initiative i was looking tonight at examples of tuxes online to see what we would have as options and i ask him to come to the computer and he says 'no, im tired'. I had off today and he worked so he threw that in my face. I told him that even when im working, im thinking of our wedding...im just so frustrated, what am i supposed to do!!