I've posted about this before and it is really getting me anxious and scratching my head: FMIL has 6 sisters, one of whom despises me over petty stuff. FH and this aunt used to text each other all the time, and during one of their texts my name was mentioned, and his aunt said 'if you marry that b-word, I'm not going to your wedding!'
She's never liked me bur has always said 'hello' when FMIL was around for appearances sake. When FH was in the hospital 2 years ago, my parents came up when the aunt was there, and the aunt started a whole drama about how my Mom didn't shake her hand because I must hage told her she was the nasty one. The aunt trash talks me to FMIL while FH is within earshot, and nothing is done about it because they're blood. Well, guess who sent back her rsvp with a 'yes'? I'm stressimg over whether or not she's going to make faces as I walk with my father, mutter when I'm saying my vows or ignore me, the BRIDE, at the receiving line. When I tell FH that she's only coming to sabotage the wedding, he says I'm being paranoid. I don't know what to do to relax about this
rdhbride
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Ugh, how awful! The last thing you need to worry about on your wedding day! Do you have a good relationship with FMIL? If so, maybe she can intervene on your behalf and advise her sister to not in any way ruin your wedding day? Good luck!!
Karrie D
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Pay NO attention to her what so ever!! If she does anything in attempt to ruin your day just have her asked to leave. I would also tell your FH this as well so that he is prepared and his mother is prepared in the event it does happen. So sorry you have to deal with petty people in general but now at your wedding! UGH!!!!
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Posted by Karrie D
Pay NO attention to her what so ever!! If she does anything in attempt to ruin your day just have her asked to leave. I would also tell your FH this as well so that he is prepared and his mother is prepared in the event it does happen. So sorry you have to deal with petty people in general but now at your wedding! UGH!!!!
This!! Don't pay her any attention or even better kill her with kindness!!
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Posted by Karrie D
Pay NO attention to her what so ever!! If she does anything in attempt to ruin your day just have her asked to leave. I would also tell your FH this as well so that he is prepared and his mother is prepared in the event it does happen. So sorry you have to deal with petty people in general but now at your wedding! UGH!!!!
This!! Don't pay her any attention or even better kill her with kindness!!
This!!
pixietina
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I would ask FH if you can un-invite her!I would not want someone who didn't like me at my wedding.
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Posted by Karrie D
Pay NO attention to her what so ever!! If she does anything in attempt to ruin your day just have her asked to leave. I would also tell your FH this as well so that he is prepared and his mother is prepared in the event it does happen. So sorry you have to deal with petty people in general but now at your wedding! UGH!!!!
This!! Don't pay her any attention or even better kill her with kindness!!
This!!
This exactly!!!
Bride2Be78
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Posted by Karrie D
Pay NO attention to her what so ever!! If she does anything in attempt to ruin your day just have her asked to leave. I would also tell your FH this as well so that he is prepared and his mother is prepared in the event it does happen. So sorry you have to deal with petty people in general but now at your wedding! UGH!!!!
