FH's Bachelor Party is this weekend

So FH was saying his bachelor party is this weekend and how he is not that exciting b/c he knows they are going to get a stripper or go to a strip club and he's not into it. Which Im glad he said but Im nervous. I know strip clubs are all a big goof but its hard when your FH is the center of attention and joke. Someone please remind me that they dont touch them or anything

I am in your shoes, FH is having strippers in the actual limo...and you know how small limos are lol...he assured me hes not going to do anything, hes not into them either but the BM and GM are throwing it so what can I say...Im going to Hunkmania so I really cant say much lol...

You trust him, your going to get married, and hes just going out with the boys to have some fun. At the end he is coming home to you! who got the ring on? you do, so everything will be ok!

Most of the girls in stip clubs are all FAKE anyways. FH Hates that. LOL. But I found out that if the strip club serves alcohol they are not fully nude and if they do, They can only be topless. But anyways, They aren't allowed to touch anyways at a strip club. NO WORRIES.
FH is having his bachelor party on the 30th, but my brothers, uncle and EVEN Dad is going. He better be on his best behavior. But I TRUST him and that's the most important thing.

thanks girls

My advice is get your girls together, go out and have a blast- don't worry at all about your fh!

Don't worry---honestly these days I think the bparty is more for the groom's friends more than anything. They will probably be living it up while he smiles and drinks and lets them have their fun.

Stay positive!!

There are so many posts now about bachelor parties. Can I just add that we are marrying these men for a reason. They are good men, they make us happy and we love, trust and respect them. A stripper is NOT going to ruin a strong solid relationship. They can only help destroy a couple that was doomed for other reasons.

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Posted by MJDoc12

Don't worry---honestly these days I think the bparty is more for the groom's friends more than anything. They will probably be living it up while he smiles and drinks and lets them have their fun.

Stay positive!!

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so true, I always say that. me and DH were dating like 5 months and his friends were planning his vegas bachelor party! 4 years later they made it happen, so I agree it's mostly for the friends.

I wouldn't worry about it - DH will tell me stories and it seems for the most part they just think it's funny .

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Posted by 2007 Crescent Bride

There are so many posts now about bachelor parties. Can I just add that we are marrying these men for a reason. They are good men, they make us happy and we love, trust and respect them. A stripper is NOT going to ruin a strong solid relationship. They can only help destroy a couple that was doomed for other reasons.

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I know, I know. I totally trust FH and it would never end our relationship. Its just the thought of some sloppy h0e rubbing on him yuck

DH had 2 bachelor parties (don't ask ). Both involved strippers and/or strip clubs. It is what it is. Bottom line is I trust him, they go for drinks and laughs and yes, sightseeing but so what. I TRUST him, he got lap dances, i don't care, let them rub their you-know-whats in his face...he's coming home to me and I know he loves me and respects me in the end.

Don't worry, your FH is going to have a great time and then he's coming home to you. He loves you, remember that.

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Posted by 2007 Crescent Bride

There are so many posts now about bachelor parties. Can I just add that we are marrying these men for a reason. They are good men, they make us happy and we love, trust and respect them. A stripper is NOT going to ruin a strong solid relationship. They can only help destroy a couple that was doomed for other reasons.

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TOTALLY AGREE

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Posted by MikeandJess

FH's bachelor party was 2 weeks ago and they went to a strip club. Some strippers were dirtier than others (like the one who told FH's 19 year old cousin that if he married her so she can get a greencard they can have orgies with her and her sister 3 times a week)

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Posted by Bride908

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Posted by 2007 Crescent Bride

There are so many posts now about bachelor parties. Can I just add that we are marrying these men for a reason. They are good men, they make us happy and we love, trust and respect them. A stripper is NOT going to ruin a strong solid relationship. They can only help destroy a couple that was doomed for other reasons.

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I know, I know. I totally trust FH and it would never end our relationship. Its just the thought of some sloppy h0e rubbing on him yuck

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It;s really not that bad. I swear. I am sure I am not the only woman that has been to a strip club. Depending on the place...yes they do run during a lap dance but the guys are NOT allowed to touch. This are the nice places with the very attractive women (Scores, Executive Club etc). They worst part about strip clubs is the CHEAP perfume/body spray these women wear. You don't want them too close for long periods of time.

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Posted by MJDoc12

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Posted by MikeandJess

FH's bachelor party was 2 weeks ago and they went to a strip club. Some strippers were dirtier than others (like the one who told FH's 19 year old cousin that if he married her so she can get a greencard they can have orgies with her and her sister 3 times a week)

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LOL FH said his cousin looked at her and said I'm really just looking for a lap dance

ALSO!!! These strippers.. they only care about their MONEY!! They don't want our FH's contrary to popular belief...they probably laugh at all the horn dogs that try and get in their pants anyway!!!

Strip clubs...are actually better then them renting a stripped to come someplace... DON'T WORRY!!!

My FH is having a stripper come to him at a bar..They are SO MUCH WORSE in private.. but im not concerned at all!!! Stip clubs...are childs' play..... don't even think about it!!!!

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Posted by wifetobe

ALSO!!! These strippers.. they only care about their MONEY!! They don't want our FH's contrary to popular belief...they probably laugh at all the horn dogs that try and get in their pants anyway!!!

Strip clubs...are actually better then them renting a stripped to come someplace... DON'T WORRY!!!

My FH is having a stripper come to him at a bar..They are SO MUCH WORSE in private.. but im not concerned at all!!! Stip clubs...are childs' play..... don't even think about it!!!!

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