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My FH's bach party is this weekend too. They are camping in Stowe, VT. I can't imagine strippers over there though. Ha ha!
FH's bach party is this weekend too! they are going to saratoga for 2 days!
Posted by AllyDrew1108
My FH's bach party is this weekend too. They are camping in Stowe, VT. I can't imagine strippers over there though. Ha ha!
I went through this!!!! My DH said he didn't want to go to one, but his best man insisted- even some of the groomsmen said they didn't want to go, but they still went obv cus it wasn't about them. Anyway, they can't touch the girls. They will get kicked out. So don't worry. And my DH and his friends still laugh about how skeevey the girls and the place was. DH even showed me their myspace and it was pretty gross and the girls looked trashy. LOL So don't worry. he is marrying you and loves you and will be excited to come home to you at the end of the night.
aww don't worry about it! FH is going to appease his buddies, because thats honestly what these bachelor parties are for... And hes coming home to YOU! Drink some wine and have your girls over, it will be over before you even realize it started!
Posted by Kerin2804
Fh has his B-party 9/12-9/14 - Some of the guys wanted strippers butr he said no - he is done with that - that they are gross. If your FH really does not want the stripper then all he has to do is say it.
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
ITA.
and, not for nothing though, unfortunately no one can promise anyone on here what will or won't happen at a strip club. sure, plenty have rules about no touching and whatnot, but do you honestly think that is always followed?!
don't get me wrong, im seriously not trying to make you feel bad or scare you, im just saying! im sure there are many strippers and men out there who will cross boundaries. but at least you can rest in the fact that you trust your FH not to act.
DH had strippers in their hotel suite. I knew about it the whole time and even saw pics. You have to trust your DH. Im not going to say they wont touch him because they will be very close to him and rub on him. You have to trust your DH wont take that further and youre marrying him so Im sure you do know he wouldnt do anything that would ruin youor relationship before the wedding. Dont stress it.
Posted by 2007 Crescent Bride
There are so many posts now about bachelor parties. Can I just add that we are marrying these men for a reason. They are good men, they make us happy and we love, trust and respect them. A stripper is NOT going to ruin a strong solid relationship. They can only help destroy a couple that was doomed for other reasons.
Posted by wifetobe
ALSO!!! These strippers.. they only care about their MONEY!! They don't want our FH's contrary to popular belief...they probably laugh at all the horn dogs that try and get in their pants anyway!!!
Strip clubs...are actually better then them renting a stripped to come someplace... DON'T WORRY!!!
My FH is having a stripper come to him at a bar..They are SO MUCH WORSE in private.. but im not concerned at all!!! Stip clubs...are childs' play..... don't even think about it!!!!![]()
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by Kerin2804
Fh has his B-party 9/12-9/14 - Some of the guys wanted strippers butr he said no - he is done with that - that they are gross. If your FH really does not want the stripper then all he has to do is say it.
ITA.
and, not for nothing though, unfortunately no one can promise anyone on here what will or won't happen at a strip club. sure, plenty have rules about no touching and whatnot, but do you honestly think that is always followed?!
don't get me wrong, im seriously not trying to make you feel bad or scare you, im just saying! im sure there are many strippers and men out there who will cross boundaries. but at least you can rest in the fact that you trust your FH not to act.
Posted by jessnstu08
don't worry ! My FH went to the strip club and got 3 hours of lap dances and was so drunk he couldnt tell the girls apart. he sat there and was unable to touch them and i trust what he told me .
not ALL men are going to take it to the next level , and if they go to the strip club just ask him - no 'back rooms' and no strippers in hotel rooms - that was my request, because the hotel stippers are whores . FH is grossed out by that behavior anyway .
Posted by Espo22
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by Kerin2804
Fh has his B-party 9/12-9/14 - Some of the guys wanted strippers butr he said no - he is done with that - that they are gross. If your FH really does not want the stripper then all he has to do is say it.
ITA.
and, not for nothing though, unfortunately no one can promise anyone on here what will or won't happen at a strip club. sure, plenty have rules about no touching and whatnot, but do you honestly think that is always followed?!
don't get me wrong, im seriously not trying to make you feel bad or scare you, im just saying! im sure there are many strippers and men out there who will cross boundaries. but at least you can rest in the fact that you trust your FH not to act.
things can happen but a guy has to be willing to spend ALOT of money for these things to happen. Most guys dont want to pay $600 for a bj, while they dont mind paying to just have a girl dance some guys feel paying for sex is pathetic and $600 is not cheap and some places im sure are more. ALot of places, just a lapdance can be expensive and i know guys who go but dont get a lapdance bc of the money. So if you know its a guy that wont spend alot on any extra thingsthen you dont have to worry.
There are some things a stripper can do to discreetly have you touch her but its hard to do and not anything big either. Like i said, depending on the club they go to, theres security who watches during lapdances to make sure these guys dont do anything. If he is going to a more classier place then shouldn't worry. But for the most part YES the rules are followed, like i said theres something discreetly that can be done which isnt allowed such as her being able to rub up on your hand, hard to explain, so nothing real big. A guy touching breast or something like that, he will get kicked out and i think alot of guys are scared of the big bouncers in there and dont want that to happen. OF course more can happen but he has to shell out alot of money for it.
Posted by Bride908
Posted by Espo22
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I totally trust FH and I know its a joke - but it still makes me mad that cheap ta tas will be in his face and us women just have to accept that this is what guys do
Posted by Bride908
Posted by jessnstu08
don't worry ! My FH went to the strip club and got 3 hours of lap dances and was so drunk he couldnt tell the girls apart. he sat there and was unable to touch them and i trust what he told me .
not ALL men are going to take it to the next level , and if they go to the strip club just ask him - no 'back rooms' and no strippers in hotel rooms - that was my request, because the hotel stippers are whores . FH is grossed out by that behavior anyway .
3 hours of lap dances o lordddddd. God bless you - i wouldnt even want to know that lol![]()
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Posted by Espo22
Posted by Bride908
Posted by Espo22
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I totally trust FH and I know its a joke - but it still makes me mad that cheap ta tas will be in his face and us women just have to accept that this is what guys do
i know this will sound weird but a strip club for a bachelor party can be alot better than a regular club and ill tell you why.
Ok lets look at some facts:
stripclub-$600 for a bj
regular club-you can get it for free
stripclub-you have to pay for a girl to dance rubbing up on you and you CANT touch
regular club-you can have a girl rubbing up on you dancing for FREE and you can touch
stripclub-you will NOT leave with any of the strippers
regular club-you can definitely end up leaving with a girl
i worry about regular clubs more than i do about strip clubs bc at a strip club they are in a controlled environment where they have security making sure they DONT touch lol, you dont have that in a regular club hahaha. And if they want a girl to dance they have to keep paying money where as in a club you can dance with DOZENS and DOZENS of girls ALL NIGHT LONG for free and at a regular club a guy can leave with a girl
out of all the guys i know, and not just ones in relationships who have cheated, ill put single guys in the mix too. But no guy i can think of got a BJ in a stripclub, 1 i can think of did get one from a stripper that came to the house but not in the stripclub. I lose count when i think about the amount of guys i know who got a bj from a girl they met in a club or had sex with a girl they met in a club and left the club with her and hung out with her after. I also lose count when i think of the amount of guys who rub up against girls in clubs and have these skanks in clubs grinding up against them.
So in a weird way be glad hes going to a strip club instead lol
Posted by jessnstu08
Posted by Bride908
Posted by jessnstu08
don't worry ! My FH went to the strip club and got 3 hours of lap dances and was so drunk he couldnt tell the girls apart. he sat there and was unable to touch them and i trust what he told me .
not ALL men are going to take it to the next level , and if they go to the strip club just ask him - no 'back rooms' and no strippers in hotel rooms - that was my request, because the hotel stippers are whores . FH is grossed out by that behavior anyway .
3 hours of lap dances o lordddddd. God bless you - i wouldnt even want to know that lol![]()
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he told me that my FATHER kept sending girls over which is gross in an of itself and that he was the worst out of all of them ! so gross....
I went to all american male review and had plenty of my own lap dances ect, so it evened out lol
Posted by Espo22
Posted by Bride908
Posted by Espo22
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I totally trust FH and I know its a joke - but it still makes me mad that cheap ta tas will be in his face and us women just have to accept that this is what guys do
i know this will sound weird but a strip club for a bachelor party can be alot better than a regular club and ill tell you why.
Ok lets look at some facts:
stripclub-$600 for a bj
regular club-you can get it for free
stripclub-you have to pay for a girl to dance rubbing up on you and you CANT touch
regular club-you can have a girl rubbing up on you dancing for FREE and you can touch
stripclub-you will NOT leave with any of the strippers
regular club-you can definitely end up leaving with a girl
i worry about regular clubs more than i do about strip clubs bc at a strip club they are in a controlled environment where they have security making sure they DONT touch lol, you dont have that in a regular club hahaha. And if they want a girl to dance they have to keep paying money where as in a club you can dance with DOZENS and DOZENS of girls ALL NIGHT LONG for free and at a regular club a guy can leave with a girl
out of all the guys i know, and not just ones in relationships who have cheated, ill put single guys in the mix too. But no guy i can think of got a BJ in a stripclub, 1 i can think of did get one from a stripper that came to the house but not in the stripclub. I lose count when i think about the amount of guys i know who got a bj from a girl they met in a club or had sex with a girl they met in a club and left the club with her and hung out with her after. I also lose count when i think of the amount of guys who rub up against girls in clubs and have these skanks in clubs grinding up against them.
So in a weird way be glad hes going to a strip club instead lol
Posted by Bride908
Posted by Espo22
Posted by Bride908
Posted by Espo22
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I totally trust FH and I know its a joke - but it still makes me mad that cheap ta tas will be in his face and us women just have to accept that this is what guys do
i know this will sound weird but a strip club for a bachelor party can be alot better than a regular club and ill tell you why.
Ok lets look at some facts:
stripclub-$600 for a bj
regular club-you can get it for free
stripclub-you have to pay for a girl to dance rubbing up on you and you CANT touch
regular club-you can have a girl rubbing up on you dancing for FREE and you can touch
stripclub-you will NOT leave with any of the strippers
regular club-you can definitely end up leaving with a girl
i worry about regular clubs more than i do about strip clubs bc at a strip club they are in a controlled environment where they have security making sure they DONT touch lol, you dont have that in a regular club hahaha. And if they want a girl to dance they have to keep paying money where as in a club you can dance with DOZENS and DOZENS of girls ALL NIGHT LONG for free and at a regular club a guy can leave with a girl
out of all the guys i know, and not just ones in relationships who have cheated, ill put single guys in the mix too. But no guy i can think of got a BJ in a stripclub, 1 i can think of did get one from a stripper that came to the house but not in the stripclub. I lose count when i think about the amount of guys i know who got a bj from a girl they met in a club or had sex with a girl they met in a club and left the club with her and hung out with her after. I also lose count when i think of the amount of guys who rub up against girls in clubs and have these skanks in clubs grinding up against them.
So in a weird way be glad hes going to a strip club instead lol
hmmm very well put!!! Thanks!!!But he's going to a club too - its OK im fine with that lol
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