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FH's family

dazies1011 Posted:

FH's family

So Im gonna make a long story short.
I finally found out why Fh isnt such a family man. His family ***** balls and thats the nice way of putting it, exception to his mom, dad and sister.

As most of you know we have been planning our wedding for 2 yrs now. After we got engaged a few months after his sister decided that her and her BF wanted to get married fine... that was suposed to be 3 weeks after us but, they switched their date to Oct. 3rd, fine.
Well in the summer of 08 his cousin, stuck up B itch, got engaged and booked her wedding 2 WEEKS after us, before knowing his sister had switched her date. So his dad's side was going to be going to 3 weddings in 3 weeks.
Well now they are doing 3 weddings in 5 weeks.


Ok so now this past weekend was my shower and his cousin's is this Sunday. Well his aunt, her mom and his cousin did not show up, no one on his dad's side did. His mom's family lives in Cali so that was understandable. Now I RSVPed that I was going and now Im thinking of not going. They did not show up to mine, out of the 3 families only 1 sent us a gift and it wasnt his cousin or her mom and I know that they will give her some wonderful gifts cause they have to kiss his aunt's fat a$$. I already bought her a gift and now Im returning it. If I decide to go I will be regifting a gift I got!!!! Yup thats right you heard it. I got something I did not like, was not on my regisrty and since they are the way the are I will be giving her this, IF I decide to go.
I know some people are thinking that they will give me agift when I see them there but, no we already know they are not... thats even alonger story. these people are selfish and words that I cant say on here.

So the bottom line is after all these years of fighting eith FH to go do family things know I can be more understanding cause of what he grew up with.

I cant believe how they can be sooooo RUDE, Im glad I dont have a family like that.
Did I mention that his aunt that was suposed to alter and bustle my dress is from this side of the family? YUP YUP

OK VENT OVER
springsandra Posted:

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HUGS!!!!!!!!!!

Those people are nuts! Don't know what they were thinking.

I think you should go this weekend and have fun -- eat lots of food and celebrate, and don't forget to mention all YOUR wedding plans to the people at your table and compare things to how great everything was at your shower.

Sounds like you will be the one reeling your FH in and creating a family he actually likes and cares about with him. They always say you can choose your friends, but you can't choose your family... fortunately, that's not true when it comes to who you love and marry!

coldasice217 Posted:

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Posted by springsandra

HUGS!!!!!!!!!!

Those people are nuts! Don't know what they were thinking.

I think you should go this weekend and have fun -- eat lots of food and celebrate, and don't forget to mention all YOUR wedding plans to the people at your table and compare things to how great everything was at your shower.

Sounds like you will be the one reeling your FH in and creating a family he actually likes and cares about with him. They always say you can choose your friends, but you can't choose your family... fortunately, that's not true when it comes to who you love and marry!




Couldn't have said it better myself!
gina409 Posted:

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i am so sorry u r going through thhi--thats really crappy of them

as hard as i will be i have to agree with the girls...i would go and have a great time..eat drink and be F'inn merry

show them that just becausethey acted like jerks u can still be as awesome as u r.... i would talk about my shower non stop..be like..oohh these r cute cp's,but at my shower we had etc etc etc

just seeing u happy and excited bout ur wedding will really frost their cookies


hope u fel better

and btw-- i would def excahnge the nie gift u got sand get something cheap
IrishBrideASmiling Posted:

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I would just go and bring a really nice gift and make them feel like cr@p for not attending yours or even giving you a gift.

Oh and dont forget to mention, 'well, the food was sooo much better at MY shower!!'
JamDancer Posted:

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I'd go and be the bigger person!

AugustBridein09 Posted:

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Posted by JamDancer

I'd go and be the bigger person!



I agree
tinadansr Posted:

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I'd go but wouldnt briing a gift
dazies1011 Posted:

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Posted by tinadansr

I'd go but wouldnt briing a gift

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