FH's mother

So when we first booked the Photographer FH's mom wanted him to go to her house. so we said fine. He was going to go there for like 15 min and tak epics of FH. who knows why....the photographer mosly only goes to the brides house. SO then a few months ago we decided we didn't want him to go there cause she will take away from time with me. So FH agreeed. He didn't want him there in the first place. So I told FH to tell his mother. SO yesterday she was talking about something and mentioned that that photographer will be at there house anyways...FH never told her!!! I asked him if he told her and he thinks he did. So here she is still thinking he's going to her house. I told FH he has to tell her. And he said just let it be a suprise on the day of...

She cause alot of problems along the way so I really don't care anymore what he does or doesn't do. If he wants to tell her he can.

You can always be like, 'Oh I don;'t know WHAT happened?!?! He must have forgotten!' Play the innocent card

i would just blame it on the photographer and say that he really advised against it. Not enough time or something.