FH's sister update... VERY LONG
Since some of you know I am not fond of this woman, yesterday I approached FH's parents about a situation that occurred 1 YR and a HALF AGO!! Why? B/C this dumb broad brings it up and I hear her upstairs talking about it. So I wanted to defend myself since she of course wasn't telling my side of the story to make herself look good.
What happens? I am talking to his parents and she comes in the room and I tell her in all honesty how I feel about her. I couldn't hold it in much longer. Her lack of parenting and morals are horrendous. She was not raised this way and to act like she lives in the ghetto is a disgrace to her family and an embarrasment to me to see her act that way. I don't know how many times she tried to twist all these stories around. How she thought I didn't talk to her b/c of something that she did to ME! HA The reasons I don't talk and like her are b/c she is ignorant (thought I was white when I am spanish), a liar, a hypocrite, a cheater, takes advantage of everyone, is mentally abusing her child, is not a mother, acts like a teeny bopper at the age of 27 w/ a child, has no respect for anybody, and quite honestly thinks her **** don't stink. Thinks she is miss perfect and does no wrong.
She expected me to be sooo scared and intimidated of her. And I wasn't one bit! She practically hit me 2x and I sat there and said grow up Nicole act your age. You are being immature. Like I said ghetto! A 27 yr old can't take criticism in an adult manner. As if I was going to have a cat fight with her in her parents bedroom and they are next to us! Ya real mature! PLUS her parents tried to push her away so she wouldn't hit me and I just sat there. I am NOT going to act like a fool and fight someone. I was not brought up to fight people when they talked about me. I was not raised to act like a savage if I don't agree with someone's opinion.
Here I am 5' and she is 5'9' and I am not scared of her. I told her I am not scared of you. You bring no fear to me. You are nothing to me. Looking at her right in the eyes. And who is the better person-ME!
Because her parents know she is a problem.
Needless to say she un-invited herself to the engagement party, the wedding and whatever else. And like I told her, better for me-one less plate that I have to pay for! She expected FH and I to say ooh no Nicole we are sorry we want you there. To beg her to be a part of our day. Truth is I never did want her anywhere near me on our day. And the nerve to say: if you think my son will be in your wedding you can forget about it! What do her parents say: Nicole how will that look if Denzel isn't a part of the wedding? You are talking nonsense! HA HA HA!! That is all I have to say to her! Dumb broad.
I feel SOOOO much better after yesterday's ordeal. Like a load has been lifted from my shoulders. I have been holding this all in for a very long time.
Sorry for the long vent...
What happens? I am talking to his parents and she comes in the room and I tell her in all honesty how I feel about her. I couldn't hold it in much longer. Her lack of parenting and morals are horrendous. She was not raised this way and to act like she lives in the ghetto is a disgrace to her family and an embarrasment to me to see her act that way. I don't know how many times she tried to twist all these stories around. How she thought I didn't talk to her b/c of something that she did to ME! HA The reasons I don't talk and like her are b/c she is ignorant (thought I was white when I am spanish), a liar, a hypocrite, a cheater, takes advantage of everyone, is mentally abusing her child, is not a mother, acts like a teeny bopper at the age of 27 w/ a child, has no respect for anybody, and quite honestly thinks her **** don't stink. Thinks she is miss perfect and does no wrong.
She expected me to be sooo scared and intimidated of her. And I wasn't one bit! She practically hit me 2x and I sat there and said grow up Nicole act your age. You are being immature. Like I said ghetto! A 27 yr old can't take criticism in an adult manner. As if I was going to have a cat fight with her in her parents bedroom and they are next to us! Ya real mature! PLUS her parents tried to push her away so she wouldn't hit me and I just sat there. I am NOT going to act like a fool and fight someone. I was not brought up to fight people when they talked about me. I was not raised to act like a savage if I don't agree with someone's opinion.
Here I am 5' and she is 5'9' and I am not scared of her. I told her I am not scared of you. You bring no fear to me. You are nothing to me. Looking at her right in the eyes. And who is the better person-ME!
Because her parents know she is a problem.
Needless to say she un-invited herself to the engagement party, the wedding and whatever else. And like I told her, better for me-one less plate that I have to pay for! She expected FH and I to say ooh no Nicole we are sorry we want you there. To beg her to be a part of our day. Truth is I never did want her anywhere near me on our day. And the nerve to say: if you think my son will be in your wedding you can forget about it! What do her parents say: Nicole how will that look if Denzel isn't a part of the wedding? You are talking nonsense! HA HA HA!! That is all I have to say to her! Dumb broad.
I feel SOOOO much better after yesterday's ordeal. Like a load has been lifted from my shoulders. I have been holding this all in for a very long time.
Sorry for the long vent...
