FI problem...

I would be concerned.

Did he tell you why he was doing it the first time you said something?

(supposed to symbolize being hurt, getting mad, getting upset, and then hugging/kissing and making up!) I hope it's nothing to be concerned about... good luck sweetie.

How did you find out?

I am a firm believer that you cannot tell a man what to do- this will only entice him to do it all the more.

I would however express my discomfort with the situation and tell him exactly how I feel.

Is it random chatting , or was it graphic.

when FH first got a computer he loved the chat rooms- it was something different to him- now he won't go near them.

I would put a stop to IT NOw..

Internet chatting isn't good!

the first explanation was that he was just goofin around and were just talking ... (whatever that means) and he promised not to do it again.
But i put a keylogger on the computer so i can see exactly what he says. But i see he talked to the same person more than once... (in a .log in the messenger file it shows when someone logged in and when conversations started and with who, but not what was said) I just don't know whether to say something now, or wait to see what he says (if he does it again soon).
I',m pretty confident he would never cheat (he's never away for unexplained absenses, but i don't like him chatting to chicks)

i broke up with my ex because i found friendfinder cookies and his profiles on my comp.

why does he feel he has to do that to goof off? I would be concerned if I were you
why cant he just talk to you and his male friends
why the need to go goof off w/ females he doesnt know