Fiance Issues

Anyone else going through this...Now I know my fiance is very busy, and I completely understand it but like I want to send out the save the dates by this week, at least put it in the mail...Well, I don't mind doing his side...But he was just so hurtful to me saying I better do it right or else he will blame me...I am like I know how to do wedding stuff, I know the right way of writing things down, and things like that...If I am great at anything, it is most definitely planning a wedding...Thank you all for listening to my rant!!! :)

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It can be hard at times. I feel like our FH's don't understand how much goes into planning a wedding. I hardly see my FH right now because of conflicting and busy work schedules so I NEVER get any help from him. Thank god for my BM's. Hang in there and maybe just tell him that a little help every now and again would help you out!

Fiance Issues

Well, its not even that...Its his mean thing he said to me...I understand he may not want to or like to or is available to help me...But I love doing theses things...So for him to act as if I am going to mess something up, really hurt me because it showed he doesn't trust me..

Fiance Issues

I'm sorry, but that's not ok. You should tell him that he really hurt your feelings. It's never ok to do that to someone you love.

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Tell him how you feel. Make sure he knows that you are putting your all into planning your wedding and that him not trusting you really hurts. I feel like sometimes they just need a little reminder to think before they speak.

Fiance Issues

It's not ok, but maybe he was just having a bad day? We all tend to take things out on the people closest to us. As long as he apologizes I wouldn't let it get you down.
If it were my FH who said that I'd hand him a stack of envelopes and a pen and tell him to get crackin and shut it!

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Ouch. Sorry your feelings were hurt but I would definitely tell him and explain to him that comments like that are NOT ok. Hope it all works out for you!

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I don't know how your FH is, but mine is a joker, and would say something like that as a joke. The problem is, especially with as much work I'm putting into planning (and letting him off the hook for most of the planning), I would take this so personally and be so hurt by it.

I think you should talk to him about it. He may not have even realized that he said it, or may not have meant it in a hurtful way. I also am not sure you can really mess up STDs. What would he blame you for?

He may not realize how much work you are putting into making this day perfect, and you need to stand up for yourself and tell him. I'd tell him that if he doesn't want them to be messed up, he better do it himself!!

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Yea, I saw him today...And he apologized to me, and I think he is stressed with his schedule as well...I think I may be being super sensitive as well, thank you ladies for your help and advice :)