Seriously, I'm like the only one who's booking and making appointments to see all these places. He really doesn't care about being involved and really isn't interested in wedding stuff except being there for the day. Does anyone else have a fiance like this? It kind of upsets me.
hugs213
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My FI keeps calling it 'your project' Excuse me? This is 'our' wedding...Don't take it personally, it is just their personality. Actually I kinda like having all the say so now.
OctBride05
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my fh is the same way. i just started looking at halls and when i ask him to come with me he tells me no, you pick the one you want and i'll come and look at it. he has no interest whatsoever and it makes me mad. i'm going to have to do everything without him and its going to be sooooooooo stressful.
krwm
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My FH was like that at first and some things I honestly didn't care if he came with me or not b/c I could do WHATEVER I WANTED!! lol
But he does it all with me lately...he has no choice!
Danielle
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Chrissy, I hear you. My FH just canceled on me a half hour before our appt. to see a catering hall. He wants me to take digital pictures of the place!
Getting mad...
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I have done most of the planning for our wedding and it doesn't bother me...in fact, I like that I have complete control over things. However, I do ask for FH's opinion on things and if he didn't like anything, we'd compromise or make changes.
He has tried to help with some things...like stuffing the envelopes for our invititations and driving all over LI for appointments with me with florists, photographers, etc. etc.
Otherwise, my FH just wants this all over with and be on our honeymoon!!!
