OK, LET ME ASK YOU GIRLS.......EVERY NIGHT OR A FEW TIMES A WEEK, B/C I'M SO UPSET RIGHT NOW...WE HAD SUCH A GOOD DINNER (WHICH HE MADE!!) AND I WENT UPSTAIRS TO LOOK AT MY VS STUFF I ORDERED AND HE WAS LIKE.....UHM, OK.....LIKE NO!!!! R U KIDDING??????? NOT EVERY NIGHT...OR AM I WRONG???
escobooker
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Lately maybe twice a week...Im toooo busy and tooo tired...lol
xXxNovember08xXx
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once in a blue... then again we still live with our parents.
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Posted by escobooker
Lately maybe twice a week...Im toooo busy and tooo tired...lol
ME TOO!! I JUST GOT MY YOU KNOW WHAT...I MEAN COMEON!!! AND HE IS LIKE WELL EVERYONE IS ALWAYS DOING IT ON GH....UHM..IT'S A SOAP OPERA..THAT'S WHAT THEY DO AND IT'S NOT REAL!
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Well he's not my fiance anymore ( ) but it's only about once a week for us. He has such a long work day that by the time he gets home all he wants to do is eat dinner and go to bed! He just doesn't have the energy. Frustrating sometimes!!!
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Sex...what's that? I am saving myself for marriage...29 days can't come fast enough!!!!!!!!!!
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We aim for at least a couple a week, but lately that hasn't been happening b/c we've been SUPER busy w/ all the wedding stuff...it doesn't help that we live up in northern Westchester so we have to come down to LI for all our mtgs and afterward I'm just so drained and want to go to sleep!
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lol!!! he's lucky he gets it at all, but he thinks that everyone else is doing it more than him....which might ruin his ego!
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For us, it's been once in the last 2 weeks for the same reasons, (work & fatigue). As long as it's not me LOL.
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lol!!! he's lucky he gets it at all, but he thinks that everyone else is doing it more than him....which might ruin his ego!
Let him read this thread and he'll know that no FH's are getting it alot!!!
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But when we do its 'MAGICAL' We try to make the best of it. Sometimes I feel like a virgen though, when its been a while.
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We used to get stressed out about sex but we had a big talk recently and I told him I hate putting such a HUGE importance on it. Its only PART of a relationship not the whole thing. And although I love it, it doesnt have to be done every day! We still do it a lot but I found that we would both feel pressured to get it on a certain amount of times a week just cause and sex shouldnt be that way.
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i feel the same way...the relationship is not all about sex, but he puts such and emphasise on it, that's how i feel and then i get upset!
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Ok so I just had my FH read this and I was like 'see I am not the only one who doesnt want sex everyday. its not normal!!!' Were like every 10 days. we both work full time, live with my parents until this wedding done (cant afford to move our and pay for this wedding) and to top it off i have a 5 yr old so for lack of privacy, exhaustion and everything else on the plate hes lucky he gets it at all!!
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Dont you hate when they say 'remember when we were first together and we had sex everytime we looked at eachother?' my response now to that is 'yea and now were in reality and have gotten over that part and so should you'
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Posted by xXxNovember08xXx
once in a blue... then again we still live with our parents.
yeah, our sex life has taken a nose dive lately just because of the wedding. We are moving in together next week and we can't wait.......
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We have the opposite problem -- I want more and he's always tired from working overtime.
I told him that he needs to put in some overtime over here!
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Latley, its been about 2 to 3 times a week... FH is working 7 days a weeks and I work 6 days a week, 2 jobs... When I am not doing wedding stuff I am sleeping, there isn't much time for anything else AT ALL! We used to like every night but as soon as the 6 month mark came along that when bye-bye
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which it were every day, but we still live at home with parents too. .grrr lol
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Posted by FutureMrsCarrieri
We have the opposite problem -- I want more and he's always tired from working overtime.
I told him that he needs to put in some overtime over here!
