FIANCE'S AND SEX???? VENTING!!!

Original post by mishjohn

Jul 09, 2008 10:27 PM

OK, LET ME ASK YOU GIRLS.......EVERY NIGHT OR A FEW TIMES A WEEK, B/C I'M SO UPSET RIGHT NOW...WE HAD SUCH A GOOD DINNER (WHICH HE MADE!!) AND I WENT UPSTAIRS TO LOOK AT MY VS STUFF I ORDERED AND HE WAS LIKE.....UHM, OK.....LIKE NO!!!! R U KIDDING??????? NOT EVERY NIGHT...OR AM I WRONG???

KiTTeN0819 Posted: Jul 10, 2008 09:12 AM

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Posted by xXxNovember08xXx

once in a blue...
then again we still live with our parents.

This is our problem.. I cant wait until we get our own place. It is very frustrating. Were lucky if its once a month.

bluekat16 Posted: Jul 10, 2008 09:13 AM

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We're at about 2-4x's a week , depending on our mood that week and nothing when it's that time of the month. If it were up to him it would be everyday....I think it's just a guy thing.

RisiLeigh Posted: Jul 10, 2008 09:19 AM

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I only see FH on the weekends and if we're lucky we do it ONCE that weekend :( Personally, it is not enough for me LOL... but we'll see what happens once we're married and I live with him.

fdny3113 Posted: Jul 10, 2008 09:21 AM

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Posted by xXxNovember08xXx

once in a blue...
then again we still live with our parents.

Same thing here!!!!

Future Mulligan Posted: Jul 10, 2008 09:50 AM

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ive had these stitches in my back for what feels like forever - i think we did it twice in the past 3 weeks because of them its depressing - i cant wait for them to come out.....otherwise its normally about 3 times a week - sometimes more, sometimes less depending on what we are doing, him working late, how busy we are, etc. but its never enough for him either - we've argued about it too mostly because he'll ruin the mood by asking for it, or by doing something stupid - or by trying to do it when im showering which he knows i hate its like he doesnt get it - its like the moves he thinks will turn me on, they turn me off hahahahaha my biggest peeve is talking about it - i like when it just happens - not when he says something like 'i think when you come back from the bathroom you should come back naked'

Soon2beAlberti Posted: Jul 10, 2008 11:24 AM

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it depends...one week it'll be almost every day and the next maybe nothing. but i work all different schedules and this week has been insane with me trying to go between 2 jobs.

DeeluvsVinny Posted: Jul 10, 2008 11:46 AM

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Posted by escobooker

But when we do its 'MAGICAL' We try to make the best of it. Sometimes I feel like a virgen though, when its been a while.

Haha me too! (feeling like a virgin)

We try for once or twice a week, but who has the time! this week it's already been twice!

MikeandJess Posted: Jul 10, 2008 11:49 AM

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Let's just say that I'm a born again. I'll leave it at that.

jessnstu08 Posted: Jul 10, 2008 11:56 AM

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Posted by MikeandJess

Let's just say that I'm a born again. I'll leave it at that.

so we share more then our name and the same honeymoon....

lyss0908 Posted: Jul 10, 2008 12:30 PM

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Posted by FutureMrsCarrieri

We have the opposite problem -- I want more and he's always tired from working overtime.

I told him that he needs to put in some overtime over here!

that's what I'm talking about! FH got a second job so you can only imagine for me. I feel like some of your FH's!

MrsEsther Posted: Jul 10, 2008 01:39 PM

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Posted by jeffamanda080808

Sex...what's that? I am saving myself for marriage...29 days can't come fast enough!!!!!!!!!!

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Me too girl..i second that..lol

MikeandJess Posted: Jul 10, 2008 02:18 PM

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Posted by jessnstu08

Posted by MikeandJess

Let's just say that I'm a born again. I'll leave it at that.

so we share more then our name and the same honeymoon....

I just saw this. We should have rooms next to each other at least we know we won't be waking each other up

gabbie83 Posted: Jul 10, 2008 02:28 PM

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sunday is our day! lol
we;re just so tired - so when we have sunday all to ourselves we're like

(im so happy its almost sunday

)

escobooker Posted: Jul 10, 2008 03:57 PM

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Posted by gabbie83

sunday is our day! lol
we;re just so tired - so when we have sunday all to ourselves we're like

(im so happy its almost sunday

)

OMG same here, we usually leave it for the weekend starting Friday when we stay up late, hang out, watch movies , drink and then get it ON!!!
So really its usually Fri, Sat, and maybe once a week... But its usually a WEEKEND Thang, which you look forward to!!! LOL

gabbie83 Posted: Jul 10, 2008 04:11 PM

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Posted by escobooker

Posted by gabbie83

sunday is our day! lol
we;re just so tired - so when we have sunday all to ourselves we're like

(im so happy its almost sunday

)

OMG same here, we usually leave it for the weekend starting Friday when we stay up late, hang out, watch movies , drink and then get it ON!!!
So really its usually Fri, Sat, and maybe once a week... But its usually a WEEKEND Thang, which you look forward to!!! LOL

haha i know'once we start drinking saturday afternoon its like a marathon

kimandvin Posted: Jul 10, 2008 04:40 PM

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I agree Im soo busy wtih grad school, working full time and planning htis wedding and guys just don't get it!

wo0shply Posted: Jul 10, 2008 04:43 PM

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i know how you feel ... my FH says 'I'm not a robot I cant turn it off and on'

I thought i was the only one.

mendi725 Posted: Jul 10, 2008 05:29 PM

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I hear ya...I deal with this all the time. He always says..I don't want to be like my married friends...they complain all the time that they don't get any...blah blah blah...

Wifeynella Posted: Jul 10, 2008 09:06 PM

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wait we are supposed to be having sex? wow.... no one tells my FH b/c he obviously doesnt know about it. lol

heathermatt Posted: Jul 10, 2008 09:31 PM

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ok before I decided to put a cut on it,,,,it was two or three times a week,,,then I decided no sex until after the wedding....Thank god i only have 9 more days.... i am hoping for 2 or 3 tines a week when married