fighting w/ FH- about exercising- need to vent

He told me that he is surprised I am not going to the gym more now that the wedding is so soon. He said he imagined me going like every day at this point.

I am under SOOOO much stress. I hate my job and I am miserable everyday of the week for approximately 8 hours, plus the hours that I come home and have work to do for it. Lately when I get out I have so much to do for the wedding- fittings w/ my BMs, dance lessons, etc. Soooo I didn't go to the gym at all this week... and FH is giving me that speech.

He said we paid so much money for me to go to the gym and I am wasting it. I told him I have been under so much stress and then we had an argument w/ him telling me I need to handle stress better We hardly ever fight but the whole lecturing me about the gym thing... and then topping it off with saying I need to handle stess better- really hit a nerve. I am so annoyed, especially since he is still in graduate school and sits home ALLLLLLL day- and then he tells me I need to learn to handle stress better- when HE is the one who plays playstation 3 all day.

Ok- vent over. I really NEVER do this...

Breathe...long deep breaths.

I hear ya. Feel better?

sorry you had that fight.....
maybe you could go to the gym together and spend some time together or maybe he could help more so you have time to go the gym....
also exercise makes me less stressed, releases endorphines, happy hormones!!!