final update

I really want to thank you ladies for your support. last post My priest and planner called me yesterday after I canceled the wedding and told me to look at the bigger picture. Sometimes we get so wrapped up in anger we forget about the other person whom may be hurting. I love my fh more than anything and I'd rather have my feelings hurt rather than let this situation with FMIL hurt him anymore.

update to update: FMIL canceled her wedding but of course not without the guilt trip. But no matter what I am going to marry him. The bigger picture is that I love him.

Again thanks for your kind words

I'm at a loss for words

Things will work out for you both we will be praying for you sweetie!!!

Wow. What a crappy situation. I'm glad you were finally able to see that all that really matters is you will be marrying the love of your life. Keep us updated and lots of hugs your way.

Date twin!!! Oh my goodness, so neither of you are getting married that weekend?? Why should she be giving you the guilt trip?? I think it should be the other way around, being you are the one that's been planning this wedding where she just sprang this out of no where!
Oh my.. here's some
If you need to talk FM me!

Wow...how upsetting. How could she do such a thing to you and ur FH. Well dont stress it out too much, you get married...remember the big picture here is that YOU are marrying the person you love....goood luck

What a story---I just read through all the previous posts.

What a difficult position to be put in. I'm so sorry that you are going through this stress. As if all this planning wasn't enough already.

I hope that everyone can find a way to allow this to be the joyous occasion it should be. You really shouldnt have to compete with anyone who is trying to take away from your wedding day. Hopefully there will be a way to add to the joy of the family expanding in many ways, without hurting one another.

I really hope it all works out soon.

I am so sorry for all that you are going through. Wedding planning is hard esp with your situation. I can not believe what a strong woman you are. You have been planning around military deployments and crazy fmil. I have to give you a for everything you are going through and a because you have handled it so well. I would have gone postal and you would have heard about me on the evening news. And just remember when fmil starts with guilt trips just counter her with a sob story. Good luck I hope things get easier you you.

everything will work itself out, just stick by your man...

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Posted by werock0709

I'm at a loss for words

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Me too! Im so sorry but I hope that everything works out with everyone involved

I'm happy that you are going 2 stick by ur man. Hopefully things will get better

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Posted by SoulMates422

I really want to thank you ladies for your support. last post My priest and planner called me yesterday after I canceled the wedding and told me to look at the bigger picture. Sometimes we get so wrapped up in anger we forget about the other person whom may be hurting. I love my fh more than anything and I'd rather have my feelings hurt rather than let this situation with FMIL hurt him anymore.

update to update: FMIL canceled her wedding but of course not without the guilt trip. But no matter what I am going to marry him. The bigger picture is that I love him.

Again thanks for your kind words

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Im sorry.. But Im confused, why did you cancell your wedding… I think I may be missing a post..