Finalizing w/the Venue...

How long before the wedding did you contact (or did they contact you) the venue to set up all the final stuff.. Menu, linens etc...

I'm 7 weeks out.. Should I be buggin them??

yeah, call them ... mine never called me and when i did (about 8 or 9 weeks out), they said 'oh it's busy season, i wish you would've called last week'

i had my tasting about 5 weeks before the wedding, and the final meeting about 4 weeks before.

I just got a call from our RH last Friday. Left a message for them on Monday and they're going to call back today.

Give them a call. You could set up an appointment that's the most convenient for you then.