i have been friends with her for 15 years! AND SHE IS MY DAUGHTERS GODMOTHER!!! i havent seen her since i got engaged- which was in nov. she didnt come to my daughters bday party in dec which is where i asked all the girls to be in the wedding- so i planned on asking her at my engagement party which was feb 7. and guess what SHE NEVER SHOWED - she texted me she was sick! so i am totally deleting her from my life! also- she posted on facebook that i looked fat and white trash at my engagement party - ant that my fiance is ugly... i want to kill her!!! my fiance is so adorable and i sooo didnt look fat!
grkbarbie
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wow. what a piece of shyt she is. ur better off. dont let her upset u. shes obviously not some1 u should want in your life.
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I am sorry she is being so petty. It is good that you will be surrounded by the true people who love you on your special day.
Geez I can't believe she wrote that on facebook. What a JERK!
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I can't believe anyone could say stuff like that about a friend let alone post it on facebook! She's the one that's trash! Good thing you found out now what she's really like. She's obviously jealous that you're getting married otherwise she wouldn't have reason to say such hurtful things. Did you confront her on the things she posted about you?
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What is it with people? They can't see other people happy that they have to bring them down. Truly your ex-friend must be miserable and very insecure for her to write those things. You are better off with her out of your life.
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IMO you should only have people in your life that are supportive of you and your FH so it sounds like she is an extremely negative person.. you don't need that on your wedding day! i would remove her from my BP as well.
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wow.. thats crazy to post something like that KNOWING you would see it.. is she the extreme jealous type? That's how shes coming across..
angelatp
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what an awful thing to say, forget her.
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IMO you should only have people in your life that are supportive of you and your FH so it sounds like she is an extremely negative person.. you don't need that on your wedding day! i would remove her from my BP as well.
I agree! And she does seem like the jealous type. I would just remove her from your life at the moment and definitely not ask her to be in your bp. You don't need someone like that who is going to hurt u
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ok, I just looked at your pic, you are sooo NOT fat, she is JEALOUS, you are BEAUTIFUL... and your fh is very handsome. and for her to post that on facebook shows what type of person she is, JEALOUS TRASH....
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wow! i would atleast call her and ask her what her problem is...it just seems so odd (and immature) for someone to do, especially with a 15 year friendship. I agree though she is definitely out of the party!! Sorry you had to deal with that!
deanna225
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that is awful. people r just jerks some times. i so would say get rid of her. that is not a friend.
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i was reading it and i was kind of rationalizing her actions then i read the part about what she said on facebook.
That totally put me over the edge... i'd kill her.
CristinanBen2010
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WHat a witch!!!!!!! I would x her out of my life for good!
jussie82
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what a dumb biotch! I would say confront her about her behavior but it doesnt even seem worth it..just forget her entirely
Christine N Ralph
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Your doing the right thing...Dont bother asking her because she would prob end up causing you more drama in the long run anyway
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Your doing the right thing...Dont bother asking her because she would prob end up causing you more drama in the long run anyway
I totally agree! Sounds like your wedding will be much better without her. And she seems very unreliable, so not someone you could count on to be there for you!
Nichole2010
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wow thats really rude. obviously she is jealous. tell her to f*ck off and kick her a$$ lol
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Thats a real classy girl! You're better off without her!