First wedding blues

First wedding blues

I spoke to my FH's cousin today and sadly her and her husband and their 3 boys (whom we are VERY close with) will not be able to make it to the wedding because her husbands sister is getting married the same day!
they said they will try and make it to the ceremony!
Anyone else have this problem?? FH is really upset

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i dont have that problem but why dont hey just split up ....her husband can go to his sisters wedding and ur fh cuz can go to urs...i personally rather them go to the reception thats were all the fun happens maybe they can work something out.....and if she knew about ur wedding fisrt she should definately go to urs...good luck

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I agree with the above poster. My FI and I have done this just so we can attend the weddings. It all worked out!!

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I know it's sad when people you really want to be there have other plans. If they really wanted to be there they could split up but maybe they aren't doing that bc of the boys. I don't know. Sorry your blue.

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She was thinking about doing that at first.. since yes she did know about ours first.. but she is saying they can't miss his sisters wedding! I was hoping she would at least come for a little while to the reception.. that she does

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oh no!!

i'm sorry chrissy. that stinks. but it's true, he can't miss his own sister's wedding.

i feel bad, i have no solution

i'm sorry chrissy!

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I almost had this problem with my cousin. I sent out STDs early on so she knew my date, and then a friend of hers had gotten engaged and hadn't set a date. Well it turned out that they set their date the same as ours! She was all upset because her FH was in the wedding party of the friend but since they'd known about mine first she wanted to go to mine. Turns out that theirs is a night wedding and my wedding is a day wedding! So they will probably just have to leave mine early (well she will anyway, he won't be there) and go to their friends wedding! Problem solved!

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I can close to having that problem with my cousin, but it turns out my cousin's related family member who is getting married, will be getting married in June and I am in July. Good luckt ho..

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Sorry to hear that!! I really hope I don't have this problem.....2 people in my family had the same wedding day this past summer- one was during the day and one at night. So relatives were split up all over the place....but the important ones tried to make both receptions (even though they left the day reception early). Hope they can work something out!!! Good luck!

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I don't have that problem, but I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe they will be able to attend other events that you might be planning that weekend. I'm so sorry

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