FH is my height which SUCKSSSSS i love wearing heels but on our wedding day i dont want to tower over him-any other suggestions other than ballet slippers and flip flops -- i want something fun and funky
Moonmist09
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try etsy - maybe someone can make you a pair of flat funky shoes your style that you can help design!!
Lolablue34
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I know your pain. My FH is several inches taller than me but I once seriously dated a guy who was several inches shorter and I always had anxiety about heel height.
I was looking at your engagement party photos and it looks like you have a slight heel- I cant event tell when you're standing next to your fiance.
So, I would suggest getting kitten heeled shoes (I bought a pair for my wedding at Sandy's in Massapequa) and make sure FH rents/buys tux shoes that give him a little lift. Trust me, nobody will think about it but you!
MrsTarricone2B
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I feel your pain! I 5'9 so when I put heels on I basically tower over EVERYONE! I'm going to wear ballet flats but bring a pair of nice heels for pics that will show my feet...like removing the garter!
I'm definely plan on wearing flats.. I'm 5'10 and FH is 5'11...not a big difference.
leesah85
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well what do you normally do if you go to a formal event? my FH is 5'8' and I'm 5'6' and normally I wear like a 2-3 inch heel so I'm a little taller than him and it has never really bothered either of us before. That's my plan - just a lower heel.
leesah85
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or you could put lifts on his shoes...
pjc92980
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Posted by leesah85
or you could put lifts on his shoes...
dont laugh...i want to do that for FH! We are both the same height and i am so self conscious about wearing heals with him. i have no idea what i am going to do. maybe flats or 1inch
quirkybride
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I considered having my FH wear slight lifts, but then I thought I don't want to make him feel inadequate. I'll just wear smaller heels.
It depends how you feel about being taller or shorter. I have a friend who wore heels and was visibly taller than her guy in her wedding pics, but she seemed ok with it.
