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So my fiance has 2 little girl cousins who are sisters. We are definitely having the 5 year old as our flower girl. We are not having a ring bearer. I think we should have both sisters as our flower girls. My fiance and his mother disagree - they think that the other sister is too young (she will be a month away from 3 years old when we get married) and won't behvae. I don't think she is too young, especially since she will have her sister to walk down the aisle with. I also think it's rude to ask his cousin to have one of her daughters as out flower girl and not the other. Maybe that's because my sister and I are only one year apart and we never did anything separately lol. Anyway, I don't want to create a problem but I really want to have them both in our wedding party. Just wondering your girls' advice. Am I being difficult? TIA!
Posted by mrsjpc3
i think those ages are more than appropriate. I had 3 FG's. One was DH's neice who was 5.
I also asked my 2 nieces (who are sisters) who were almost 3 and almost 5. they were excellent. they all held hands and walked down the aisle. do what you want, it's your day,,, remember that.
here they are. the little one was fussy for pics afterwards, but she was great in the church.
I am not the biggest fan of children in BPs, but it seems like you really want her in it so do what YOU want to do... don't listen to anyone else. Also, don't worry about hurting anyone's feelings... I doubt the 3 year old will think that you are rude if you don't have her or feel bad about it. I think it would be cute to have the 2 sister's walking down together, especially if you are close to both of them.
