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FMIL finally responded

Original post by FutureMrsCarrieri

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maybe you recall (or maybe you don't) but I recently posted my hair and make-up trial pics. My mom said I should make more of an effort to include my non-responsive, practically comatose, FMIL. So I emailed her pics of the trial (this after I called to wish her a happy mother's day) and basically told her how excited I was about the trial and how it's not perfect because I plan to cut my bangs and whatever but that it's a great start.

She finally responds -- she hates the curls and thinks the make-up makes me look 'tired and old'

wow

and she added 'no offense, of course'

I really think she hates me

I think I didn't have good self-esteem and if I really cared what she thought about me, I would be devastated. I'm a little hurt, of course, because I think that trial is the best I've looked in a long time and she basically told me I looked like sh!t

I know I'm not marrying his family but lately I feel like this is a deal breaker. Can I put up with this crap for the rest of my life? What's going to happen when and if we have kids?

FutureMrsCarrieri Thread views: 613

Re: FMIL finally responded

Can we ship her to an island like today? lol

thank you girls for being so supportive

FH is not talking to me now, after our argument last night. I made breakfast and he left it on the table for the longest time and then he heated it up in the microwave. Then he left without saying goodbye, slamming the door on the way out.

I'm not calling him -- I had to stifle the urge to throw my ring at him