FMIL has some nerve.... I cant deal!!!!!!
So, I know I'm not on here much ![]()
, but I really need everyone's help and opinions!!!! Sorry this is long:
SO my FMIL is always doing stuff and helping out Financially to FH older brother and sister in law, they are always in debt!!!! (can never pay there bills on time, his brother use to have a gambling problem) P.S. they still live at home with my in laws!! FH and I see how they are always taking and taking from his parents and bleeding them dry. Now keep in mind that FH is the middle child and he has 1 other younger brother who is 18! SO Now comes time for our wedding- witch I might add that when his older brother got married back in 2002 his parents gave the bridal shower-because FSIL mother was unable to do one, and FH parents also gave them like 7 thousand dollars as a wedding present. So my shower was this past Sunday!!! And all I get from his mother is 2 Place settings of china and 2 flatware sets!!!!!! Now I don't mean to sound Obnoxious- But Are you kidding me! Some of my aunts spent more money that her!!!!! And to boot: she also sat there the entire time as if she was a guest at the party. She never once got up. And never asked to take a picture with me. It wasn't until the end of the party as we were packing up the cars did I realize that I never got a picture with her!!!! I had to ask my FSIL to go out side and ask FMIL to come back in to take a picture with me!
SO - the very next day, FH and I are going through the list of what everyone had given us, the cards and gift certificates, and FH asks what did his mother get us? SO I showed him and he says' that's it?!' are you kidding. So clearly he is thinking the same way I am, and then he decide to say something to his parents. Of course its a touchy subject- how do you even begin to tell your mother that you feel that she didn't do enough for you? SO of course she gets very upset, and starts to cry. And they agree to disagree, but at least he got how he was feeling off his chest!!!,
SO today stop by to say hello to FMIL and FSIL and when FMIL and I get some alone time, she starts to talk about how up set she his with FH, and now she asks' well where is this all coming from?' I know my son would never say something like this to me! This seed must have been planted in his head' are you FU**king kidding me! I told her that this is how her son truly feels and that if she has anything more to say - that she should talk to FH about it! : her reply: Oh don't worry I plan on having a meeting with the two of you! Can you believe this sh*t! Like I need to be stressing about this a 1 1/2 months before the wedding!!!!! All I have to say is here comes world war three! We never ask his parents or my parents for anything!!!! We are extremly independent! I just can't believe her! all my friends/ bridal party are in shock with what she gave us... they were all like thats it! come on, I am out of line? Be honest?
Thanks for the vent!!!!!
SO my FMIL is always doing stuff and helping out Financially to FH older brother and sister in law, they are always in debt!!!! (can never pay there bills on time, his brother use to have a gambling problem) P.S. they still live at home with my in laws!! FH and I see how they are always taking and taking from his parents and bleeding them dry. Now keep in mind that FH is the middle child and he has 1 other younger brother who is 18! SO Now comes time for our wedding- witch I might add that when his older brother got married back in 2002 his parents gave the bridal shower-because FSIL mother was unable to do one, and FH parents also gave them like 7 thousand dollars as a wedding present. So my shower was this past Sunday!!! And all I get from his mother is 2 Place settings of china and 2 flatware sets!!!!!! Now I don't mean to sound Obnoxious- But Are you kidding me! Some of my aunts spent more money that her!!!!! And to boot: she also sat there the entire time as if she was a guest at the party. She never once got up. And never asked to take a picture with me. It wasn't until the end of the party as we were packing up the cars did I realize that I never got a picture with her!!!! I had to ask my FSIL to go out side and ask FMIL to come back in to take a picture with me!
SO - the very next day, FH and I are going through the list of what everyone had given us, the cards and gift certificates, and FH asks what did his mother get us? SO I showed him and he says' that's it?!' are you kidding. So clearly he is thinking the same way I am, and then he decide to say something to his parents. Of course its a touchy subject- how do you even begin to tell your mother that you feel that she didn't do enough for you? SO of course she gets very upset, and starts to cry. And they agree to disagree, but at least he got how he was feeling off his chest!!!,
SO today stop by to say hello to FMIL and FSIL and when FMIL and I get some alone time, she starts to talk about how up set she his with FH, and now she asks' well where is this all coming from?' I know my son would never say something like this to me! This seed must have been planted in his head' are you FU**king kidding me! I told her that this is how her son truly feels and that if she has anything more to say - that she should talk to FH about it! : her reply: Oh don't worry I plan on having a meeting with the two of you! Can you believe this sh*t! Like I need to be stressing about this a 1 1/2 months before the wedding!!!!! All I have to say is here comes world war three! We never ask his parents or my parents for anything!!!! We are extremly independent! I just can't believe her! all my friends/ bridal party are in shock with what she gave us... they were all like thats it! come on, I am out of line? Be honest?
Thanks for the vent!!!!!
