Ok seriously, I am getting married in 45 days- tell me why the woman books an OPEN ENDED trip to Puerto Rico and leaves in 15 days- I just hung up the phone with her and told her that if she loves her son, she will call up right now & get a return date- because otherwise I am gonna annoy the shitake out of him till she lands in NY.
I love my fmil but sometimes I swear she just doesnt think! Like what if there is a hurricane and she cant get back or whatever!
rant over- thanks for listening
Browneyesncute
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awww don't worry i'm sure she wouldn't miss the wedding for anything!
futuremrsfab
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awww don't worry i'm sure she wouldn't miss the wedding for anything!
yea thats what she said, but I mean an open ended ticket! why cant she just pick a return date!
teenigrrl
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aww, i wouldn't worry too much. maybe she got the open ticket so that in case there is a hurricane, she has the option of leaving early, or waiting until it has passed to leave. even if she stayed there for 2 weeks, that's still another two weeks she'll be here before the wedding. does she have any pre-wedding tasks that she needs to take care of that havent' been done yet?
bluekat16
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aww, i wouldn't worry too much. maybe she got the open ticket so that in case there is a hurricane, she has the option of leaving early, or waiting until it has passed to leave. even if she stayed there for 2 weeks, that's still another two weeks she'll be here before the wedding. does she have any pre-wedding tasks that she needs to take care of that havent' been done yet?
I agree... I wouldn't worry too much. Also maybe an open-ended ticket was cheaper
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has she ever gone away for more than 30 days at a time? unless there are things she has to do in reality you really dont need her here until the day before, that is when my mom is coming - my parents and sister are coming the night before (and hopefully make it in time for the rehearsal dinner ) dont worry - i dont think she is going to stay there for 44 days - even if she stays for 30 she will still be here 2 weeks before the wedding KWIM?
ets: didnt realize she is leaving in 15 days - which would mean 30 days left to your wedding - i still think it will be fine though - even if she stays for 25 days, you really only need her there for the wedding day - at least thats how i feel with my parents - but im used to not having them around
Kimbalina
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UGH!!!
Dont let it get to you. She may be of little help since she will be gone.. but she will be back before the wedding!
futuremrsfab
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She has a lot of family in PR and she has stayed as long as 2-3 months on some occasions and she isnt leaving for 2 weeks- so thats whats got me nervous.
she doesnt work, so other than our wedding there is nothing she has to run home for- I am just nervous she will wait until the last minute to come back for the wedding & a hurricane will get in the way
jennarose023
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don't worry...i'm sure it will be fine!
Maria31
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Sounds like something my FMIL would do.. but she'd go to DR instead of PR!
Honestly, she probably wouldn't even imagine not being here for her son's wedding. I wouldn't worry at this point, but once the day gets closer, I'd have FH call her and say 'Get your arse home!'
