FMIL Issues

I am sorry sorry to hear that. Hopefully you can talk to them and explain to them with a cool head about how they need to keep their comments to themselves if it isn't going to be positive feed back

I have a feeling that in a month I will be butting heads with my FFIL and FSMIL over money because FFIL is already on FH's back about what we are spending our money on.

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Posted by Amanda2022

I can relate to what you're going through...FFIL and FMIL both have had no interest what-so-ever in the planning process so far. To them its 'still 2 years away, what are we worried about. why are we planning so much.' This month makes it 1.5 years away not 2 lol.....I would just do what YOU and FH want to do and then show them the final product. You've tried getting them involved, you have enough to worry about.

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Same here. The other day I showed FMIL pictures of my dress and a bit later she tells me 'So it sounds like you have all of the big stuff booked. That's great!'

All I have so far is venue, photographer and videographer, and a dress ordered...They just have no clue how much work and planning goes into a wedding!

I wanted them to be included in planning, but they have barely shown any interest. I'm at the point where I just don't care anymore, it's not their day, it's ours. FSILs didn't even bother to ask me about my dress when FH told them I had ordered it that day. They're bridesmaids!

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Posted by JaimeLin

I would totally drop them from the loop lol maybe I'm mean. I haven't included my FIL's at all. They see pictures after my decision if I even remember to show them that.

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This!!! I love my inlaws but it's my wedding I don't really care how they think my invitations should be worded, I didn't even ask my own mom lol.

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Posted by Vilardi82

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Posted by JaimeLin

I would totally drop them from the loop lol maybe I'm mean. I haven't included my FIL's at all. They see pictures after my decision if I even remember to show them that.

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This!!! I love my inlaws but it's my wedding I don't really care how they think my invitations should be worded, I didn't even ask my own mom lol.

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this!

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Posted by mab30

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Posted by Amanda2022

I can relate to what you're going through...FFIL and FMIL both have had no interest what-so-ever in the planning process so far. To them its 'still 2 years away, what are we worried about. why are we planning so much.' This month makes it 1.5 years away not 2 lol.....I would just do what YOU and FH want to do and then show them the final product. You've tried getting them involved, you have enough to worry about.

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Same here. The other day I showed FMIL pictures of my dress and a bit later she tells me 'So it sounds like you have all of the big stuff booked. That's great!'

All I have so far is venue, photographer and videographer, and a dress ordered...They just have no clue how much work and planning goes into a wedding!

I wanted them to be included in planning, but they have barely shown any interest. I'm at the point where I just don't care anymore, it's not their day, it's ours. FSILs didn't even bother to ask me about my dress when FH told them I had ordered it that day. They're bridesmaids!

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I feel like we're marrying into the same family!! lol ...They said the same thing to me with having things booked. They think everything is done lol. FSIL is also a bridesmaid and I cant even tell you the last time I talked to or have seen her