fmil needs to be in a white coat

fmil needs to be in a white coat

my fmil needs to be committed to a white coat!! she told us when we got engaged that she was going to pay for the rehearsal dinner
now months later she is crying poverty !!! crazy *****... and that she feels 'pressured' we don't need her dirty money

we have to pay for the rehearsal dinner
who attends? just the bridal party right???

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yeah i beleieve its just the BP and mom dad siblings and grandparetns...anyone who is onvolved in the rehersal

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Okay, first of all, I really thought you were going to say that she is demanding to wear a white coat to your wedding!!!


It can be anyone, but, generally, it's just the BP.

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We are paying for our own RD also. We are inviting both sets of parents and grandparents (We only have 1 left each ). The entire BP plus significant others and our 2 readers. It is over 30 people and it *****

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we're paying for ours too.

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i dont think we are actually gonna have a 'dinner' we are gonna have people back to the house for stuff like heros and snacks and stuff but i can not afford a RD but i am not laying out all the money for everyone to eat a big dinner ! lol they will have enough to eat at the wedding! Lucky for me my wedding in in may so if itswarm enought we can just do it in the yard...if not well go in the house no biggie!

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Posted by AmandaLynn04

Okay, first of all, I really thought you were going to say that she is demanding to wear a white coat to your wedding!!!


It can be anyone, but, generally, it's just the BP.

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I thought this tooo!!!

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Posted by jcslady

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Posted by AmandaLynn04

Okay, first of all, I really thought you were going to say that she is demanding to wear a white coat to your wedding!!!


It can be anyone, but, generally, it's just the BP.

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perhaps this helps

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Indeed it does. Thank you for the clarification.

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We're paying for ours too, but I'm really not upset about it. We are paying for everything ourselves, as our parents really aren't in the financial position to help us out. The rehearsal dinner does not have to be anything elaborate, you could even do something back at the house.

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I will be feeding the fam and BP at the house (MOB) for the RH. It will be the OOT guests, BP, Parents and I guess the significant others of the BP

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Yeah usually it's just the BP(and their dates) and immediate family-parents, grandparents, and siblings.

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