so today i go over there and she tells me that she wants to add ppl to the wedding. I told her that she cant because i gave her the list weeks ago and told her to add ppl that she wants and she did so and i told her that they were been calligraghy on sat and they were going to be mailed out on Suday, So i got into a fight with my fh about this and his FMIL and FFIL is mad at me. So i had to give in and give them 15 more ppl that we cant afford and pray that they dont come. Just to make her happy she has been so mean to me lately. Like the other day she was kicking me so i yelled at her to stop and she took it out on my fh the other night yelling at him because i told her to stop. I cant wait until we have our own place so I dont have to see her every other day. she is getting worst and worst every day.
little34
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OMG!!! I don't understand why some parents feel they need to invite all of their friends...like I get that they want their good friends there to see their kids get married, but come on!!! They already had their wedding...
I am so sorry you are dealing with this...she seems very childish. It would be one thing if they were helping you pay for these people and or gave you the list before you were going to get them printed..... ugh. Hang in there!!!! Try not to let things come between you and FH.
BIG HUGS
kabo0831
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Posted by little34
OMG!!! I don't understand why some parents feel they need to invite all of their friends...like I get that they want their good friends there to see their kids get married, but come on!!! They already had their wedding...
I am so sorry you are dealing with this...she seems very childish. It would be one thing if they were helping you pay for these people and or gave you the list before you were going to get them printed..... ugh. Hang in there!!!! Try not to let things come between you and FH.
BIG HUGS
thanks!
tinadansr
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did you tell her she is paying for them? and for the extra fee for the invitations to be sent out! be firm girl stand your ground!
kabo0831
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yea, ill see that money just like the money she owes me for buying the invites.that she said she will buy for us. She is all talk.
mlcvln129
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I would ever-so-non-chalantly leave the bill for the invites somewhere visible. . .
Yeah, I don't get these invite lists, either. Why do I have to invite your BFF twice removed??? Meanwhile, we're cutting our own friends!!!!!!
Nichole2010
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ugh..you shouldnt have gave in..its YOUR day..
and why the heII would she be kicking you?? what is she, 10 years old?
