last night i went out w my mom for dinner and when i came home FH told me he had a big fight w his mom at dinner b/c she kept saying how stupid it is that i 'have' to have a bridal shower and that me and him both 'have' to have bachelorette parties. so FH screamed back at her 'well according to you we should have just eloped right?' and then something like 'sorry our wedding is such an inconvenience to you' and she stormed off from the dinner table, and FSIL had to run off and console her.
so she came back to the dinner table and mumbled something about how we've had all these problems w the RH and that she always has to hear about it, implying that it's really annoying for her to hear about her SON'S WEDDING.
and then SHE was mad at HIM for the rest of the night.
sorry, i know a lot of my posts are complaints and problems lately but i just can't deal w the sh!t she's said about our wedding. it makes me so EFFING MAD!!!
Summertimegal424
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im just a lil confused....ur FH had a fight w/ ur mother or his mother?
Mici n KC
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I know it's very frustrating. Just take deep breaths. Remember that you will have her involved in the rest of your life. Don't forget, we're always here for you to vent!
JeanetteandSteve
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Posted by Summertimegal424
im just a lil confused....ur FH had a fight w/ ur mother or his mother?
lol...sorry...i went out w my mom, FH had dinner w his mom and she (FMIL) is the one he had the fight with. that really was confusing, i just edited it.
dannisayz
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And why is she b!tching about anything? Why is this such an inconvenience to her?
mRm2008
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Feel your pain FMIL puts her two cents in all the time when FH is around her. Christmas was a HUGE disaster she pretty well screamed at both of us from the wedding in general right down to our bridal party. As hard as it is I try to tune her out. Just as long as you don't let it get to your relationship w/ FH.
JeanetteandSteve
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Posted by mRm2008
Just as long as you don't let it get to your relationship w/ FH.
yeah...thats definitely the most important thing to keep in mind. i don't know why he even tells me when she says things like that. and then i get upset and he tells me 'that's just how she is, it's nothing personal.' not personal?! this is our wedding!! i guess i just need to try and not let it get to me.
Summertimegal424
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MIL why do they make our lives a living hell?
loislane
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wow, I'm sorry she is acting like that.
kimandvin
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Wow.. that sounds like she just is jealous and doesn't want to let go of her son.. Is she italian LOL hope that didn't offend anyone!
Soon2beAlberti
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I'd be pissed too...does she realize that a bridal shower and bachelorette are long lived traditions for every bride and groom? why would she expect or accept any less for her son? she's being silly and selfish.
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I'm so sorry. I don't know why MIL's can be like that. I think they feel like we are taking their sons away from them so maybe she resents that he is getting married and that is why she is acting like that? I don't know how to explain it. I just don't know why they can't be happy that their sons are happy? You can always come on here and vent, it's good to get it out! Hopefully things get better!
