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kim24
Posted: Aug 29, 2013 02:37 PM+
FMIL/Wedding Day ..
This is kind of a random question, but where will your FMIL be on your wedding day? Will she be getting ready with you and your mom/family or get ready at her own hair place and then join you at your house? Is she supposed to go in your limo or drive? AHhhhh logistics confuse me lol!
guitarstikibars
Posted: Aug 29, 2013 02:52 PM+

Posted: Aug 29, 2013 02:52 PM
Re: FMIL/Wedding Day ..
she will be doing her own thing and then be with FH I guess when he's getting ready. She won't be with me when I get ready.
Lisa and Steven
Posted: Aug 29, 2013 03:08 PM+

Posted: Aug 29, 2013 03:08 PM
FMIL/Wedding Day .. - Long Island Weddings
FH and the boys are getting ready at FMIL's house so she is doing her own thing in regards to hair and makeup. She will be traveling in the limo to the church with the guys.
cj21512
Posted: Aug 29, 2013 03:15 PM+

Posted: Aug 29, 2013 03:15 PM
FMIL/Wedding Day .. - Long Island Weddings
My MIL came to my house in the morning to get her hair and makeup done with the girls, then went back to her own house so she could get ready with her son and the boys. The limo picked me up at my house, then made a second stop to pick her up at her house after the boys had already left.
Soon2BMrsPortz
Posted: Aug 29, 2013 03:24 PM+

Posted: Aug 29, 2013 03:24 PM
FMIL/Wedding Day .. - Long Island Weddings
I left it up to FMIL what she wanted to do. FH didn't want to get ready as his mom's house so he'll get ready with the guys at the hotel, his mom will get ready with me and my girls at my parents house and come in the limo with us. I'm seeing FH before the ceremony which is at noon so she won't be missing much in terms of time with him and she has no daughters, just one other son who lives out in Las Vegas, so I wanted her to feel free to do as much with us girls as she wanted. She chose to get ready with me.
Bride2Be14
Posted: Aug 29, 2013 03:49 PM+

Posted: Aug 29, 2013 03:49 PM
FMIL/Wedding Day .. - Long Island Weddings
Since I'm really close to my FMIL I want her to get ready with my girls & I at my house. The boys will be getting ready at my parents house. I would like the photographer to take pics of my mother & FMIL putting on my dress! My Fiance is the only child so I would like her to experience that moment as well : ) As for the Limo My church is so close to my house i would leave it up to them the day of..
Sugaplum111905
Posted: Aug 29, 2013 04:14 PM+

Posted: Aug 29, 2013 04:14 PM
FMIL/Wedding Day .. - Long Island Weddings
crashing... my FMIL is having her hair and make-up done at my house early morning then going back to her house to take pictures with FH since he is getting ready there.
cets1290
Posted: Aug 29, 2013 04:26 PM+

Posted: Aug 29, 2013 04:26 PM
FMIL/Wedding Day .. - Long Island Weddings
the only people in the limo for our wedding is the bridal party.. both sets of parents are going in their own cars and are meeting us at the RH after we are done taking BP pics.. my FMIL will get her hair done with us but is only coming over when her time slot for hair/makeup is.. she wants to hangout at her house with my FH and the guys for the most part
Soon2BeMrsMango
Posted: Aug 29, 2013 04:50 PM+

Posted: Aug 29, 2013 04:50 PM
FMIL/Wedding Day .. - Long Island Weddings
I think FH will be getting ready wit hthe guys at our apartment in massapequa. I will be getting ready at my parents home in massapequa. I am going to invite her come be with the girls after she sees him. She can come in the limo with me OR if she decides to just be with him then she can take it with them.
larlynn
Posted: Aug 29, 2013 10:21 PM+

Posted: Aug 29, 2013 10:21 PM
FMIL/Wedding Day .. - Long Island Weddings
As far away from me as possible. I'l like to enjoy the happiest day of my life!She can meet everyone at the venue because I don't think FH wants her hanging with the boys either.
MsA2MrsA
Posted: Aug 29, 2013 10:22 PM+

Posted: Aug 29, 2013 10:22 PM
FMIL/Wedding Day ..
I would think shed be with her son.
meejack1110
Posted: Aug 30, 2013 09:31 AM+

Posted: Aug 30, 2013 09:31 AM
FMIL/Wedding Day .. - Long Island Weddings
Hmmn. FMIL will likely have her hair blown out the night before, and I guess will just remain at her house until it's time for the ceremony. FH and his groomsmen will be getting ready at the Hotel. She plans to drive to the Venue since the shuttle afterwards is going to the Hotel, and she and FFIL don't want to stay there.
xBudgetBridex
Posted: Aug 30, 2013 09:32 AM+

Posted: Aug 30, 2013 09:32 AM
Re: FMIL/Wedding Day ..
Posted by larlynn
As far away from me as possible. I'l like to enjoy the happiest day of my life!
THIS!!!!!!!
My relationship with his father and step mother aren't that great to begin with, after the one day screaming match we had about a venue and money I'm done! my FH has been dealing with them now alone and has gotten into fights every convo!!
I'm. trying to be a good DIL but I don't handle stress very well and they are very good at making it worse!! so the day off, prob the most stressful I don't need either of them. around me while I'm. stressing!
on the other hand before his birth mother passed I dreamed of her being involved every step of the way: dress shopping getting ready with the girls.... it's sad she and my grandmother won't be there for all that stuff!
ok rant and sadness over! in all My pass weddings I've been in fmil was with her son!
Bride2Be78
Posted: Aug 30, 2013 09:40 AM+

Posted: Aug 30, 2013 09:40 AM
FMIL/Wedding Day .. - Long Island Weddings
I offered for my MIL to come get ready with our at the hotel but she decided to do her own thing. She wanted to get her hair done by her salon so she just met us at the venue. It's really up to you.Welcome New Vendors
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