How are the results shown? Do you see all.of eachothers answers? Or is it some sort of summary? Please give me details!
Linzee636
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When my DH and I took the FOCCUS, we did not see the actual results. We met with an older couple who are part of the church's pre-cana program and went over the answers with them. We pretty much just talked about the questions where we had differing answers from one another (didn't really concentrate on if we had the 'church's preferred answer' - just that we were on the same page). It was great for conversation starters. but again, we only went over the questions where we answered differently from each other.
When we went to our actualy pre-cana (not through our church but through the Diocese of Rockville Centre) most couples received their results that had been printed out for them to review.But since we didn't get ours that way, I don't know what it looked like.
NovBride10
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We met with the Deacon who had a copy of our test. He highlighted the questions we answered differently and we just spoke about it. FH and I are pretty good at communicating so there really weren't any surprises. It is interesting, however, to see how you differ on some things. We were there for about an hour and a half.
CantWait2Wed
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Thanks ladies, I'm sure it's no big deal...we communicate really well. This whole process is just so mysterious I can't take it!
Jennifer2184
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when we took it, afterwards we met with someone and were given a copy of our results and we were able to see each others answers and discuss them
