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For all the brides getting married in the weeks ahead.(long)

tami Posted:

For all the brides getting married in the weeks ahead.(long)

I am not getting married, until a year from tomorrow.. but we all need to know this, unless you or your family have lost a loved one, you all need to go on with your wedding.. We must all remember that the wedding is not just one day.. it is a marriage we are planning on entering, for the rest of our lives.
Don't let the people that do bad things in this world win.. weddings are a celebration of LIFE AND OF LOVE! My heart goes out to the girl that is looking for her fiance, and for the woman whos first year anniversary is next month.. They were not given choices, they have been dealt a horrible and tragic card.. For all the brides to be, and for all the wives looking for their husbands we must remember that each day is a gift and that is why it is called the present.. dont let one more day go by.. years from now, you will remember the tragedy this week, and you will also remember that you all rose above it, and celebrated your life and your love, and that is what really matters the most!

I already know that for my ceremony next year, since it will be the one year anniversary of this tradegy, we are going to have a moment of silence for all those that have lost their lives, perhaps we can all find a way to remember those who's worlds tragically ended during our ceremonys, personally I think that would be a great way to remember all the people, and of this weeks events.

Elizabeth Posted:

Great advice Tami-Go forward & don't feel guilty

There is something so terrible going on these past few days that was just unthinkable before but amidst the insanity and sorrow, life must continue. I say this with a heavy heart for all those who lost someone or are still missing a loved one. But your life is no less important today as it was 4 days ago and you all deserve happiness and to continue on with your plans. Other than the obvious situations where you would want to postpone, go forward without guilt, and celebrate your love, life and gratitude. God bless you all and all my very best wishes for a wonderful day.

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