For the girls that are getting married soon....what is stressing you out??

It's funny.....I never thought I'd be stressed about the things I am stressed about. I am completely in control of everything that I CAN control....the things that are stressing me out these days:

The mother of my flowergirl and ringbearer has STILL not gotten their outfits figured out (she has to take him to get fitted for his tux, and she is making the flowergirl's dress) - there are only 16 days left!!! I really don't get why people wait until the last minute.

This is pretty much it. Everything else is going as planned.

I know, i am getting married the day before you. I don't really stress about things, but today I am stressing. My mom is in charge of our CD favors and has yet to start them! She is always waiting till the last minute for everything.

I am pretty much doing everything by myself. My MOH is my younger, pregnant, evil sister. She told me last night 'my baby is more important then your f***** wedding.' Now, is that nice?

The ONE and ONLY thing that was stressing me out was my slip - the seamstress did a shotty job on it, and the dress didn't look right with it. Fortunately, after I cried my eyes out on Monday night after I bought four different slips, mom came over and worked wonders with the needle and iron to make the slip work. Now, I'm relieved and it looks perfect.

Otherwise, I am not stressed about a single thing. We've put so much time and energy into the wedding already and had enough time to plan everything through that now we're excited to start our lives together and enjoy the PARTY!

Groom needs to get his groomsmens gifts!!

I am still waiting on RSVP's despite the fact my date for RSVP'ing was almost two weeks ago.

I have so much c r a p in every corner and closet in my house that I am just about to dump it all in the garbage!!

I'm really stressed b/c I have two weeks left of graduate school, interviewing for a new job and trying to schedule final appointments around everything else.

I want the darn wedding to be here already!!!!!!!!

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Posted by ChrissynRicky

The ONE and ONLY thing that was stressing me out was my slip - the seamstress did a shotty job on it, and the dress didn't look right with it. Fortunately, after I cried my eyes out on Monday night after I bought four different slips, mom came over and worked wonders with the needle and iron to make the slip work. Now, I'm relieved and it looks perfect.

Otherwise, I am not stressed about a single thing. We've put so much time and energy into the wedding already and had enough time to plan everything through that now we're excited to start our lives together and enjoy the PARTY!

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You are so right, i think it's so easy to lose sight of what it is REALLY about. Very well said!

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Posted by MayBride06

Groom needs to get his groomsmens gifts!!

I am still waiting on RSVP's despite the fact my date for RSVP'ing was almost two weeks ago.

I have so much c r a p in every corner and closet in my house that I am just about to dump it all in the garbage!!

I'm really stressed b/c I have two weeks left of graduate school, interviewing for a new job and trying to schedule final appointments around everything else.

I want the darn wedding to be here already!!!!!!!!

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it's amazing how longggg it takes the grooms to get their gifts for the gm's - it's like the ONLY thing they are responsbile for. FH just finalized his...but I asked him if he is going to wrap them and he was like,' ....nah' - sweet, I'm going to have all these lovely gifts wrapped and FH is just going to hand his gifts over, unwrapped and looking pathetic. Oh, well.

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Posted by johnsae

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Posted by MayBride06

Groom needs to get his groomsmens gifts!!

I am still waiting on RSVP's despite the fact my date for RSVP'ing was almost two weeks ago.

I have so much c r a p in every corner and closet in my house that I am just about to dump it all in the garbage!!

I'm really stressed b/c I have two weeks left of graduate school, interviewing for a new job and trying to schedule final appointments around everything else.

I want the darn wedding to be here already!!!!!!!!

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it's amazing how longggg it takes the grooms to get their gifts for the gm's - it's like the ONLY thing they are responsbile for. FH just finalized his...but I asked him if he is going to wrap them and he was like,' ....nah' - sweet, I'm going to have all these lovely gifts wrapped and FH is just going to hand his gifts over, unwrapped and looking pathetic. Oh, well.

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At least your groomsmen will get gifts...at this point...i'm not sure that he'll even buy them!!!

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Posted by johnsae

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Posted by MayBride06

Groom needs to get his groomsmens gifts!!

I am still waiting on RSVP's despite the fact my date for RSVP'ing was almost two weeks ago.

I have so much c r a p in every corner and closet in my house that I am just about to dump it all in the garbage!!

I'm really stressed b/c I have two weeks left of graduate school, interviewing for a new job and trying to schedule final appointments around everything else.

I want the darn wedding to be here already!!!!!!!!

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it's amazing how longggg it takes the grooms to get their gifts for the gm's - it's like the ONLY thing they are responsbile for. FH just finalized his...but I asked him if he is going to wrap them and he was like,' ....nah' - sweet, I'm going to have all these lovely gifts wrapped and FH is just going to hand his gifts over, unwrapped and looking pathetic. Oh, well.

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I actually did most of the grooms gifts too. I ran ideas by him but did it myself. It's part him being laid back about it and not knowing what to get and part me and my type A, control freak personality.

The weather!!! it is stressing me out......I keep checking the internet every minute.....

otherwise all little things are driving me crazy.....I really can't wait for 5/22.....(the day after)...

We are pretty much done and on track. Just have to print out our placecards and programs and finish wrapping our favors (will be done by this weekend). But we have enjoyed all of these things together so it's been fun for us. All we have for next week is our final payments and confirmation calls to all vendors.

GOD willing everything will go as planned, IF NOT, oh well, we tried.

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Posted by ChrissynRicky

The ONE and ONLY thing that was stressing me out was my slip - the seamstress did a shotty job on it, and the dress didn't look right with it. Fortunately, after I cried my eyes out on Monday night after I bought four different slips, mom came over and worked wonders with the needle and iron to make the slip work. Now, I'm relieved and it looks perfect.

Otherwise, I am not stressed about a single thing. We've put so much time and energy into the wedding already and had enough time to plan everything through that now we're excited to start our lives together and enjoy the PARTY!

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You are my hero!!!!! You are always so calm, your projects are great!

Glad someone got it together!!!

That's how I feel! What a great thread it's making me cry as I think of more things! I want it to be 9pm the night of my wedding!!!!!!

I hate my family especially my mom and sister who is my MOH! I hate one of my friends I can't say who. I hate FH almost entire family! I hate my job and my boss because I need more money and its *****! I hate vendors because they are soooooo expensive! It basically is like this everything thing is little and small but when you add up how it's mostly both of our entire families and FH throws some bs in there too I just can't take it anymore!

ps happy to hear the groomsmen gifts are an issue for everyone! FH just asked this morning what I thought of one (I bought them yesterday and the vendor screwed up on one and I'm still waiting to hear from them)

honestly, right now NOTHING is stressing me out. two weeks ago, that was not the case. funnily enough, I think the closer you get to the day, the more you relax and let go, b/c you start thinking about what everything MEANS TO YOU, and not what is going on with everyone else.

I am nervous as hell, but stressed..NAH, what will be will be- no sense worrying about things that I can't change...and those things that I can change...I've done so much already to make them right, if they aren't now...they aint' never gonna be!

I am relaxing and enjoying...and getting ready for the RIDE OF MY LIFE!

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Posted by JessicaM.

honestly, right now NOTHING is stressing me out. two weeks ago, that was not the case. funnily enough, I think the closer you get to the day, the more you relax and let go, b/c you start thinking about what everything MEANS TO YOU, and not what is going on with everyone else.

I am nervous as hell, but stressed..NAH, what will be will be- no sense worrying about things that I can't change...and those things that I can change...I've done so much already to make them right, if they aren't now...they aint' never gonna be!

I am relaxing and enjoying...and getting ready for the RIDE OF MY LIFE!

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Glad to hear as it gets closer, the less stressed you become! i cannot wait for that feeling!

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Posted by LaurenluvsTJ

That fact that we didn't make our minimum because none of FH's family is coming.

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That's so sad.

Right now, I'm not stressing ANYTHING.

I'm actually shocked I'm able to say that after the crazy year I've had so far.

All I have left is placecards and to kick FH in the butt to buy the GM gifts already. That's it. That's all that's left. Even if I don't get the placecards done, I can always use the ones I filled out for the hall.

Everyone is paid, or will be by Saturday. Everything is in order so that I can relax for the next 9 days, and it's exactly how I wanted it to be.

For those who are not yet at the calm point, it does get better!! Because you just get to where you figure whatever happens, happens, it will not make us any less married either way!!!

For me, w/ Wedding Countdown
7 Days 23 Hours
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not a whole lot. Just to make u feel better, 2 groomsmen havent gotten fitted YET!
One has an excuse but REALLY, come on boys!

Just keeping it cool and calm...for now