for those of you not considering a video...

dubliner Posted: Dec 16, 2003 01:44 PM

for those of you not considering a video...

When we were preparing for our wedding, at the last minute we decided to get a video.
My dad passed away suddenly on Dec 5th, and one of my sources of comfort is seeing him alive and well and enjoying himself at our wedding.
I hate to sound morbid, but for that reason alone we are so happy to have not only our memories of a wonderful day, but also of my dad looking so happy and proud, and really enjoying himself

Sage10.03 Posted: Dec 16, 2003 02:03 PM

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I am so sorry to hear of your great loss! How wonderful that you have that and are able to see him happy and proud.

I regret not getting a video now!

mrswask Posted: Dec 16, 2003 02:05 PM

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We weren't originally going to go with a video - but you never know what happens in life and i really want to have a live record of my wedding - not just pictures - but actual people and voices. Also - so many brides have told me that there is so much going on at your wedding that you are never even going to get to see - you can't be everywhere at once! That's why we're getting a video!

Maribelle7777 Posted: Dec 16, 2003 02:07 PM

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I'm very sorry for your loss

Tammy5-03 Posted: Dec 16, 2003 02:22 PM

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Helen, I'm so sorry for your loss. I am so glad that the video is a source of comfort to you at this difficult time.

Mich1108 Posted: Dec 16, 2003 02:50 PM

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My heart goes out to you and your family
My dad passed away on Christmas 11 years ago so I know how difficult it is to lose someone during this time of year when everyone else thinks it's the 'most wonderful time of the year.' You make a great point on the benefits of having a video.

Kelly9904 Posted: Dec 16, 2003 02:53 PM

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I am sorry that this happened to you!

The same thing happened to my cousin, however quite the opposite of you, 3+ years later she still has not put that video in the player!

I am glad that the video has proved to be of a comfort to you!

May05Bride Posted: Dec 16, 2003 02:55 PM

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I am really sorry to hear your father passed away.

Irishbride Posted: Dec 16, 2003 02:56 PM

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Helen - I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

I had a video for my 21st b-day and I am so glad that my Dad got it b/c he passed away very suddenly 6 months later.

Boop2704 Posted: Dec 16, 2003 02:57 PM

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Dubliner, I am so sorry about your dad. My condolenses. I can definitly relate with the video memories. When my brother died, I never thought I would hear his voice or laugh again, but then one day, my aunt brought over a video from my grandparents 50th wedding anniversary and I was hysterical. I was able to see and hear my brother again. It was such a special moment. I felt all warm and all these memories came alive again. That is one reason we decided to go for the video. We didn't go all out and get a great package, but we will have something that will capture all the people that were there to create wonderful memories on our special day.

sammi102 Posted: Dec 16, 2003 04:13 PM

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I am so sorry for your loss! Thanks for sharing your reasoning of getting a video!

kathleenmarie Posted: Dec 16, 2003 04:28 PM

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sorry for your loss.....just wish we coudl afford it

nsgraham Posted: Dec 16, 2003 04:35 PM

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I'm so sorry for your loss.

If anyone doesn't think they can afford it, check out my budget vendor webpage. Third Planet Video will tape the whole day (not edit) for $300.

Vendor page

Willow1 Posted: Dec 16, 2003 04:47 PM

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I'm sooo sorry - thank you for your post.

Marcela1654 Posted: Dec 16, 2003 04:49 PM

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I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers

aliciahelene Posted: Dec 16, 2003 05:24 PM

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Im so sorry about your father!!!

unicorn1178 Posted: Dec 16, 2003 09:30 PM

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i'm sorry about your dad.. makes you think though..

palebride Posted: Dec 16, 2003 09:34 PM

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so sorry to hear about your father

you know, a few years ago, i was talking to someone and she had the same experience and was so glad to have that wedding video. i originally didn't want a video, but thinking of her telling me about her story changed my mind.