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For those who already had their shower.....

Mrs.C 102608 Posted:

For those who already had their shower.....

Did you make a speech thanking everyone? My shower is this weekend and I am so nervous about this. I know I shouldnt be because it is all my friends and family but I hate speaking in front of that many people. I already have to make sure I formally thank FH's family because they all sent the gifts to my house already but I really didnt want to make a long speech, just more of a quick thank you to those who sent the gifts to my house already. Hopefully it wont be as bad as I am making it in my head and with a few drinks I wont care
price867 Posted:

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After I opened all my gifts I gave a quick 'Thank You Speech'. I won't stress over it. Short and sweet is my motto.

Snick n Nick Posted:

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I didn't so much make a speech as just say thank you to everyone for being so generous, etc....and talking to ppl individually....people were all socializing with each other most of the time anyway, it wasn't like there was a speech moment....you'll be fine!

Cutechef729 Posted:

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I didn't make a speech. I am also not having a RD so I don't plan on making speeches but writing cards to everyone for when they open their presents.

Mrs.C 102608 Posted:

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Thats the whole problem I am planning on thanking everyone as I go around to the tables so I really didnt want to have to make a speech because I always sound stupid and stumble over my words and my voice gets shakey. Its terrible, I just dont want to be speaking to a silent room while everyone stares at me because that is so awkward.
Kimbalina Posted:

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I think it is a nice idea! But I think you could thank everyone while you mingle too.. if you dont want to say a 'speech'

oktom22 Posted:

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I didn't make a speach but I did say thank you to everyone personally as I opened each gift. Don't worry you will be fine...
Mrs.C 102608 Posted:

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Posted by Cutechef729

I didn't make a speech. I am also not having a RD so I don't plan on making speeches but writing cards to everyone for when they open their presents.



That is what I plan on doing.....I think after I open my gifts I might just say and a quick thank you to those that sent gifts to my house and just mention their names quickly. I think I am just going to see how it goes and if I feel comfortable enough to say something I will and if not I will just say I got caught up in everything and forgot and Im sure his family will understand.
Mrs.C 102608 Posted:

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Posted by oktom22

I didn't make a speach but I did say thank you to everyone personally as I opened each gift. Don't worry you will be fine...



Well at least I know there are others that didnt make a speech. My family knows me and knows I get too embarrassed to stand up and say something. Do you think it is terrible if I dont formally thank his family?
jessnstu08 Posted:

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I thanked everyone on an individual basis , as I was opening gifts . My mom gave a little toast with champage ( which we drank all afternoon ) thanking everyone for comming ect since she was the host of my shower
Jenn04 Posted:

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MY sisters (BM) made a speech and a quick toast at the beggining to thank everyone for coming. I added a few words and that was it. Then I thanked everyone at the end of the party!

kslmbuggie Posted:

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i didnt do a speach, my MOH did though. i just said a quick thank you to everyone @ the end.

Toucan311 Posted:

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No way no how will I make any speeches.

Mrs.C 102608 Posted:

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I am sure either my mom or sister will make a toast so I dont think it will be terrible if I dont make my own separate speech. The only thing that ***** is I know FH's family is expecting me to say something because they asked FH how everyone is going to know what they got me.

I hate that I am stressing over this because I am making myself all nervous and I just want to go to my shower and have a great time.
Jenn04 Posted:

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Actually...I am thinking that you should just thank them as soon as you see them! Like when you hug them hello

Snick n Nick Posted:

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If you're worried about a silent room, I wouldn't! Even while I was opening presents people were talking! There was hardly a silent moment! Of course, that may just be our noisy families!!!
Jenn04 Posted:

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Why did they send things???

Mrs.C 102608 Posted:

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Posted by Jenn04

Actually...I am thinking that you should just thank them as soon as you see them! Like when you hug them hello



Well I already called each of them personally as soon as I received the gifts to thank them but I guess they dont want it to look like they didnt get me anything so they want everyone to know what they got me. I know it is all so stupid that I am worrying about this. Maybe as I am sitting up their opening gifts I will see how I feel and if I feel comfortable enough to say something I will and if not I will say I was so overwhelmed that I forgot......is that terrible???
Mrs.C 102608 Posted:

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Posted by Jenn04

Why did they send things???



They sent the gifts to my house because thats how they thought I preferred receiving them and the gifts they bought were in big boxes and much easier to send to the house then carry to the shower.
Jenn04 Posted:

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Posted by Soon2beMrsC

***** is I know FH's family is expecting me to say something because they asked FH how everyone is going to know what they got me.



Not your fault! I hope am being a meany...but if they wanted everyone to know what they got you...they should have brought the gifts to the shower instead of sending them!!!

Ok ok I see. Oh well...just do what you are comfortable with!

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