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For those who have doormen

stacey7-13 Posted:

For those who have doormen

How much do you tip your doormen, supers and porters for the holidays?

In our building we have 7 doormen, 6 porters, a super and a handyman!!!!

my friends are telling me I don't have to tip as much because we just moved into the building in September, but I don't think that matters.
yabbobay Posted:

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ugh I hated that about my building...

I tipped only the 2 doormen/guards who I liked (they weren't really doormen...) and the super who was SO nice...even jumped over a 12th floor terrace when I locked myself out of my apt!! (granted I was locked out b/c of him...but still nice)


ETS: $10 and a plate of cookies
stacey7-13 Posted:

Re: For those who have doormen

Really? $10

for some reason I was under the impression that we had to tip like $50 per doorman?

Also, my friend came to visit us last night and she told them our last name....he didnt know who we were!!!!

They all are pretty nice though.
yabbobay Posted:

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I know...I was poor...so $10 and cookies...but they weren't really doormen...they were just guards for 24 hours...and there would be days when I would be struggling with all my bags and they would just watch me fumble for my keys...so i didn't really think they should get too much...
stacey7-13 Posted:

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we're poor too!!!!

To be honest with you I don't know half of their names and our lobby has been under construction since we moved in so there is never any help with our bags etc.

But I have heard from our neighbors that they normally do.

also, since they don't even know our names, how will they know who we are if we give them a tip? for some reason it bothers me. Of course I will tip them but they should know who we are!!!!!!
reallybehind! Posted:

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i was wondering this too. we also just moved in in sept, and it's a sublet. i don't know all of their names, but they all know me. i don't even know how many there are b/c i only see the same 3 guys, but sometimes there's another one and i'm like who the heck is that? anyway, more input would be greatly appreciated!!!

ChristineC68 Posted:

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I was thinking about this the other day too. We need take care of the guys in our bldg.

In my mother's building they take a collection from all the residents and present the building employees with one gift from everyone. And it's a reasonable amount like $40.

Does anyone tip their mailman?? Ours left a Season's Greetings post card in our mail box the other day. I am guessing it was a hint
SomedayBride Posted:

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As per this week's Newsweek Cheat Sheet Tips For tipping:
*Newspaper carriers, trash collectors and regular parking lot attendants will appreciate between $15 and $25
*Mail carriers aren't supposed to take gifts worth more than $20, and the Postal Service discourages cash. Instead of cookies, think of something like a coffee-shop gift card. If you want to go over the limit, the USPS says that you can give more than one gift a year, but they shouldn't top $50.
*The doorman who screens your ex-boyfriends and delivers packages all year probaby deserves the high end of the recommended $25-$100 range. Give the super the same, and the custodian $20-$30.
*Teachers? Gifts, not cash, of nominal value. Stationery, snacks, and bookmarks are favorites.
*The gift that everyone appreciates: a letter to his supervisor describing what a good job he does for you all year long.

The article also mentions Tipping.org and there is also a similar article in this month's Martha Stewart Living, but I don't have the issue with me right now.
joeslauren Posted:

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i used to give them bottles of liquor for the holidays, and money to only the ones who went out of their way for me.

Kate Posted:

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I think it also depends upon where you live. My BIL is a doorman on Park Ave. The average tip is $200.00, there are a handful that give more.

Teri Posted:

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We have a super for our building - we don't call him with too many issues, but he's nice so we tip him $40 each year.

(I think NYC is much higher on avg than LI)

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