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For women already married....

lipglossjunky73 Posted:

For women already married....

Do you ever feel like your wedding never happened?

Looking back, its such a vague blur to me, I have to tell myself - thats right - I'm married now - I had a wedding!

Isn't that strange???
N.Y.bride Posted:

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I feel the same way!

lipglossjunky73 Posted:

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Thats why I'm happy that the most important part for me wasnt the wedding - so many women focus solely on that, and then BOY - are they in for a surprise!

N.Y.bride Posted:

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I was kind of thinking that. I spent 4 months planning. It was like a second job and then POOF it was over in just a few hours!

I wish I could do it all over again - the wedding, not the planning
lipglossjunky73 Posted:

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Posted by N.Y.bride

I was kind of thinking that. I spent 4 months planning. It was like a second job and then POOF it was over in just a few hours!

I wish I could do it all over again - the wedding, not the planning



Is this terrible? I am so glad its all over - once in a while I think - I could do the wedding again, and then something in me says - nah - move on!

N.Y.bride Posted:

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That's o.k. It was just too fast! I missed cocktail hour, I really didn't get to sit down and eat, relax. I surely did not spend enough time at the chocolate fountain. I didn't dance enough with my DH.. Its o.k. though. I have nothing but WONDERFUL memories of that day and I can always wear my dress again on Halloween
lipglossjunky73 Posted:

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Posted by N.Y.bride

That's o.k. It was just too fast! I missed cocktail hour, I really didn't get to sit down and eat, relax. I surely did not spend enough time at the chocolate fountain. I didn't dance enough with my DH.. Its o.k. though. I have nothing but WONDERFUL memories of that day and I can always wear my dress again on Halloween



I totally missed MY chocolate fountain!
N.Y.bride Posted:

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Theres reason enough to do it all again

I wish i could afford to have the kids baptism at CLM. Id definately add the CF!
lipglossjunky73 Posted:

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Posted by N.Y.bride

Theres reason enough to do it all again

I wish i could afford to have the kids baptism at CLM. Id definately add the CF!



Well - maybe by the time he's finally born you'll be a millionaire!

Tell him to wait a few more days and you'll get right on it!
N.Y.bride Posted:

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I wish!
CLMon7906 Posted:

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I know what you mean Liza!!! One day, I think last week, I broke a nail and I literally muttered under my breath 'This will look awful for the we-' and then I realized A-it already happened, B-I was being ridiculous and C-thank goodness it's over...and yes, in the end, I am married and we have a 'real' family now...that's all that matters!

angnick Posted:

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yeah i know - i feel like that too.

So glad i got a video!!!!
LaurenluvsTJ Posted:

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I know EXACTLY what you mean!! Its all just a wonderful memory now - although I don't remember much - I am so grateful we go a video, I can't wait to see it.
lipglossjunky73 Posted:

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I'm glad to see I'm not the only one!!!!
heather13 Posted:

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totally!

evnme Posted:

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same here!

i'm so happy we're picking up our video on sat!!! i can see what i missed!
meniasta Posted:

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same here too!!!!!!!

Jen2999 Posted:

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Ive only been married 19 days and it is so surreal....

glinda_goodwitch Posted:

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Yup, but it's getting better since I have pictures. But seeing DH in a wedding band is so strange...but it really makes me so happy, I almost get chills.

glinda_goodwitch Posted:

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Posted by evnme

same here!

i'm so happy we're picking up our video on sat!!! i can see what i missed!



OMG, I know how you feel. Last weekend DH's aunt showed me her video from the wedding and I got to see all the BP entrances that I missed, my flower girl and ring bearer, and seeing DH and all the guys walk down the aisle. That was the best!

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