forgive me, FH rant

Please don't quote, will probably remove this later.


FH really ticked me off today. He needs new glasses, i know he needs new glasses, and he has an eye exam today. He had told me htat his insurance won't pay for glasses, but it will cover the exam. Thats it.

So today he messages me and says 'so we going to get my glasses when you get back from work?'

My response 'who's paying for them?'

'well, my insurance won't, and I dont have any money'

OK, my rant is this. His parents will help him pay for his medicine, his car insurance, his health insurance, cell phone, etc. Today is the FIRST I am hearing that I will be paying for his glasses, and supposedly I am making HIM feel bad because Money is tight. He knows money is tight.

But now I am the bad guy because I made him feel like a burden. Does he not get that if he had told me before I could have tried to put money aside, but he tells me 30 minutes before his appointment.

Am I over reacting, or is this just him not thinking?