Freaking out.... Need a shoulder

Wintersbride Posted: Aug 04, 2006 12:05 AM

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I am so sorry you are going through such a tough time. I know how you feel, and even though it's hard to imagine now, things are going to get better. I always believe that those who must struggle the hardest will have the most blessings later on...it is rewarded because you both are working so hard at it. As for school...keep trying and take loans if needed. It will pay off in the end. You will find another job and things will work out.

Mandyin2007 Posted: Aug 04, 2006 08:43 AM

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You'll be in my prayers! Good luck with everything.

MyDay627 Posted: Aug 04, 2006 08:45 AM

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Thanks for all the support. Really. I will update later but I just told DH

NY031978 Posted: Aug 04, 2006 08:57 AM

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so you did tell him....ok so what was his reaction?!

olivia30 Posted: Aug 04, 2006 09:19 AM

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I am sorry things are not going according to plan. I know these are tough times, but when one door closes another one opens.

ewickens Posted: Aug 04, 2006 09:20 AM

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I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this!!!!!!!!! Just remember, there is always something better around the corner!!!!!!!!!

BunnyBride Posted: Aug 04, 2006 09:21 AM

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I'm so sorry

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: Aug 04, 2006 09:26 AM

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Mooshyboo Posted: Aug 04, 2006 11:14 AM

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awwwww I am sorry to hear you are going through all this ~ Breather deeply and it will all work out in the end... if you ever want to vent you can FM me anytime (PS your mom sounds a little like mine...) Feel better ~ things will get better!

qdavis Posted: Aug 04, 2006 11:39 AM

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i am so sorry that you are going thru. this ordeal

Things have a funny way of working out because there is probably a job that is so much better for you...FM me as to what kind of job you are looking for and I will do a search for you....ok

Q

ms.j Posted: Aug 04, 2006 11:55 AM

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I was in a similar situation. I could see the writing on the walls and had a feeling I was going to be let go at my job. I had a mortgage, bills and a wedding to come up. Everybody kept saying, 'don't worry everything will work out', which is not what you want to hear when you feel everything crashing down around you! But, that statement is true! My friend called and told me about a job opening that pays more, with better benefits, more time off and less hours. I interviewed and got it and was so happy to say 'scr*w you to my boss'. You will find something else and get through this!

MyDay627 Posted: Aug 04, 2006 12:00 PM

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Posted by NY031978

so you did tell him....ok so what was his reaction?!

Well DH felt bad, so bad that he put his head in his hands and fell asleep Not once but twice! Oh yeah as a matter of fact he's sleeping now He said he doesnt know what to say. He did ask if there was anything he could do but then as I started telling him I didnt know how we were going to make it financially through the month he closed his eyes again. So yeah my second day is just getting better. I've been looking in the paper and nothing really. Does anyone know when we get the Town Crier in Massapequa?

tropicalbride07 Posted: Aug 04, 2006 12:02 PM

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I am so sorry and sometimes these turn of events can only bring better. At the very least try to enjoy what you have and not let it effect your spirits. You need to be strong and you will all find a way to get through!

MyDay627 Posted: Aug 04, 2006 12:02 PM

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Posted by ms.j

I was in a similar situation. I could see the writing on the walls and had a feeling I was going to be let go at my job. I had a mortgage, bills and a wedding to come up. Everybody kept saying, 'don't worry everything will work out', which is not what you want to hear when you feel everything crashing down around you! But, that statement is true! My friend called and told me about a job opening that pays more, with better benefits, more time off and less hours. I interviewed and got it and was so happy to say 'scr*w you to my boss'. You will find something else and get through this!

Thanks I know your all right but right now with all my bills coming due and overdue Im just freaking out. Im a firm believer in when one door closes a bigger better one opens! Just not feeling it today