So, I was just looking at my countdown and 303 days is really not a lot and I began freaking out asking myself- how the heck are we going to pay for all this?? We haven't even put a dent in what we owe to the RH. How often do you guys freak out about it??
babsbeark
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Only everyday!!
Whenever I sit at my desk at home and look at my wedding planner I have a list of who is owed what and it makes me start sweating!
stinenandy2010
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i just started freaking out.....fh has been freaking out for the past 14 months!
Soon2bShea
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I try not to think about it ...I keep hoping things will just work out and everything will get paid!
christine2010
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i have been freaking out about this all week. luckily i am only paying for a couple of the big expenses (band, video/photo, limos) & i have no idea how i am going to pull this off.
T E R I
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I really don't freak out that often about it, i let FH freak out about it and that happens about every other week
MrsC2010
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yeah im starting to freak out too....we are very far away from the amt we need to save
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I've been freaking out this a lot more often since we are basically 14 months away from our wedding date.
The thing is.. saving enough by that date really isn't realistic. It's saving enough to make all of our payments on time. we have enough to cover our 2nd RH payment, 2nd photog payment and 1st florist payment. My DJ can wait lol... they'll get there money eventually. (Maybe i should just work for free until i pay them off lol). We still gotta book our limo and give the deposit for that.
ugh.. i can't talk about it anymore, i'm starting to really freak out right now.
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Posted by babsbeark
Only everyday!!
Whenever I sit at my desk at home and look at my wedding planner I have a list of who is owed what and it makes me start sweating!
I am the same way. It is tough to not get stressed but it will eventually all work out.
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Well let's see, as I'm ready to sign a contract for a Blue Green Vacation package and find out that all of a sudden my FH is freaking out about paying for the wedding. UMM yeah I'm freaking out now.
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I freak out daily about buying a house b/c apprently FH does not want to sell the apt, he wants to sublet it. I am gonig to live in my one bdrm apt for the rest of my life.
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yes since it hit about 10 months, ive been stressing. we had it pretty much budgeted out and we really didnt go over on vendors or rh but its the little things that are really adding up. the postage, the envelopes, shoes, hair, makeup, etc.
every time i read to-do lists, i get a knot in my stomach! i just have no clue where some of this money is gonna come from. ive even been considering getting a 2nd job for part time to get some extra cash. sorry hunny, were all with ya
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OH, i also freak out cuz we never set a budget for rings or the honeymoon. When someone asked us how much we wanted to spend and FH told them a $ amount i looked at him and said, 'And where are we getting this $?'
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Posted by AdriandSteve
I've been freaking out this a lot more often since we are basically 14 months away from our wedding date.
The thing is.. saving enough by that date really isn't realistic. It's saving enough to make all of our payments on time. we have enough to cover our 2nd RH payment, 2nd photog payment and 1st florist payment. My DJ can wait lol... they'll get there money eventually. (Maybe i should just work for free until i pay them off lol). We still gotta book our limo and give the deposit for that.
ugh.. i can't talk about it anymore, i'm starting to really freak out right now.
WE have 14 MONTHS! OMG... lol
Wanna rob a bank with me ???? lol
JenBill61210
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yes all the time especially since FH and I are in the process of buying a house (if everything goes through)... im freaking out about how we're going to afford mortgage payments plus a wedding
KatieG2010
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i'm freakin out but FH said not to worry sooo i'm going to try not to worry.... i just dont want to be short.
LiPrincessBride
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besides $, i freak out thinking of all the stuff i still have to do!!!!
WeddingGem
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I just realized I have 260 days until my wedding!!! (I signed up on weddingwire.com and it popped up) The only thing I have booked is the RH and we still have almost none of the money saved!!! Plus I´m not working full time right now. So I am REALLY freaking out right now!!
Michy2009
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Like every freaking day!! Of course, what I planned on spending and what I am actually starting to spend turned out to be two different things.
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Posted by AdriandSteve
I've been freaking out this a lot more often since we are basically 14 months away from our wedding date.
The thing is.. saving enough by that date really isn't realistic. It's saving enough to make all of our payments on time. we have enough to cover our 2nd RH payment, 2nd photog payment and 1st florist payment. My DJ can wait lol... they'll get there money eventually. (Maybe i should just work for free until i pay them off lol). We still gotta book our limo and give the deposit for that.
ugh.. i can't talk about it anymore, i'm starting to really freak out right now.
