$$$ Freakout

Original post by StaceyWill

Jul 16, 2009 02:59 PM

So, I was just looking at my countdown and 303 days is really not a lot and I began freaking out asking myself- how the heck are we going to pay for all this?? We haven't even put a dent in what we owe to the RH.
How often do you guys freak out about it??

Rosalind_75 Posted: Jul 16, 2009 04:19 PM

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everyday

these days are going so fast!!!!!!!!!!
its scary. we have so much to do!!!!!!!!!

mikendeanna Posted: Jul 16, 2009 04:21 PM

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I have been freaking out. I think we owe $15,000 more grrrr

AdriandSteve Posted: Jul 16, 2009 04:24 PM

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Posted by mrsdraskin2009

Posted by MLoise0605

Posted by AdriandSteve

I've been freaking out this a lot more often since we are basically 14 months away from our wedding date.

The thing is.. saving enough by that date really isn't realistic. It's saving enough to make all of our payments on time. we have enough to cover our 2nd RH payment, 2nd photog payment and 1st florist payment. My DJ can wait lol... they'll get there money eventually. (Maybe i should just work for free until i pay them off lol).
We still gotta book our limo and give the deposit for that.

ugh.. i can't talk about it anymore, i'm starting to really freak out right now.

WE have 14 MONTHS! OMG... lol

Wanna rob a bank with me ???? lol

OMG I'm right there with ya

YES!

futuremrsjc2010 Posted: Jul 16, 2009 04:36 PM

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lol im freakin out and i havent even booked yet ...im just thinkin about how much money will be spent, hoping i dont go over my budget

jcreilly Posted: Jul 16, 2009 04:38 PM

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everyother day I freak once I have the $$ for the Rh i will feel better

StaceYums81 Posted: Jul 16, 2009 04:49 PM

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We have enough in the bank to pay for it but that is supposed to be money for a down payment on our house so we'll see. I'm worried about this too...

SoonToBMrsC Posted: Jul 16, 2009 05:08 PM

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pleaseee I freak out almost every day

TheFutureMrsPM Posted: Jul 16, 2009 06:47 PM

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I freak out a lot less then when we first started planning...Im down to about once a week. It does make me feel better knowing I am not the only person freaking out!

LovinMichael44 Posted: Jul 16, 2009 07:37 PM

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I'm in the opposite boat....my FH and I just bought a house and more than a majority of our money went to the house....I am constantly thinking about how we won't have money for a wedding. I think money is gonna be a worry for every one making a huge life change....but every one manages and makes do. You'll be okay

regy_k Posted: Jul 16, 2009 08:17 PM

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FH freaks out every other day, I freaked out so far only twice since we got engaged. but both of the times were really really bad, to the point that I wanted to cancel it all
then I looked at my budget, figured that we are saving, our RH is over half already paid for, and then there is some money coming later in the year, plus all the checks/cash we're getting at the wedding - cant say I become come, just the panic goes away

Alexandra17 Posted: Jul 16, 2009 08:19 PM

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I freak out about once a week and wake up in a sweat. honestly, it's going to happen one way or another..I just need to be calmed down by FH.

Tori2082 Posted: Jul 16, 2009 08:52 PM

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We were feeling good about money until we realized we forgot about the honeymoon!

MayBride2010 Posted: Jul 16, 2009 09:02 PM

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omg - it is a constant freakout. Ugh - but FH actually just figured out that our budgeted amt to spend was a tiny higher than we originally though - so that helped a tiny bit. I just HATE those bi-monthly payments to the RH! Thank god we are getting points on AmEx lol.

I just can't wait til we are married - then on to the freakouts about a mortgage haha

StaceYums81 Posted: Jul 16, 2009 09:52 PM

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Posted by Tori2082

We were feeling good about money until we realized we forgot about the honeymoon!

yah u r right about that too. I didn't think of this...

Angel06 Posted: Jul 17, 2009 03:41 AM

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FH is very carefree i freak out often lately, i felt like we were really good for awhile but FH has car issues and took money out of wedding account, and then he took money out to pay off e ring, which i was very appossed to and this is what has left me feeling very very nervous my only breath of fresh air is know we will get an income tax refund before wedding so i try to keep this as my plan b incase of emergency.

MarjorieFrank Posted: Jul 17, 2009 09:49 AM

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I just freaked out last night. I am really freaking out about getting a house... This whole time I was thinking we had over one year, which is how long it is until the wedding, but to get a house we're going to have to start looking in LESS THAN ONE YEAR which made me have a meltdown and now I am totally freaking out.

jcreilly Posted: Jul 17, 2009 09:55 AM

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Posted by MarjorieFrank

I just freaked out last night. I am really freaking out about getting a house... This whole time I was thinking we had over one year, which is how long it is until the wedding, but to get a house we're going to have to start looking in LESS THAN ONE YEAR which made me have a meltdown and now I am totally freaking out.

I am the same way we have not looked for a house at all yet all Fh money is going to the house and I will be paying for the wedding I am freaking that I will not have enough money and fh will have to pay for part of our wedding which i dont him to ( he only is paying for GM gifts, tuxedo, tips & rh)