'Free' services
So I have a bit of a dilema.
Some people, who are being very generous, have offered to do things for us in lieu of a wedding gift. We are getting 'free' dance lessons, practically free invitations, and some edible treats.
The problem is, what happens when you're not happy with the outcome? I don't want to appear ungrateful, but at the same time, I need to be happy with the product. You don't exactly want to come off as a bridezilla or control freak and alienate people - especially when we love them enough to invite them to the wedding. If I was paying a vendor, I know I would have no problem with asking them to change things, but I need to walk a fine line here.
Suggestions?
Some people, who are being very generous, have offered to do things for us in lieu of a wedding gift. We are getting 'free' dance lessons, practically free invitations, and some edible treats.
The problem is, what happens when you're not happy with the outcome? I don't want to appear ungrateful, but at the same time, I need to be happy with the product. You don't exactly want to come off as a bridezilla or control freak and alienate people - especially when we love them enough to invite them to the wedding. If I was paying a vendor, I know I would have no problem with asking them to change things, but I need to walk a fine line here.
Suggestions?
