My friend is such an a$ $! She said to me via email while I was at work(which i might add I was swamped in work today!) that ever since I got engaged i've been self centered and 'it isnt all just about you Donna'
Just because I said I wasnt sure if I could attend ANOTHER wedding in 3 weeks because I didnt have alot of money to give to the couple because I quote 'I have a wedding I have to save for too' and she flew off her handle at me. Im sorry Im just annoyed!!!
mdawg
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excuse me, but it IS all about you right now... YOU need to concentrate on YOUR wedding.. not on anyone elses. Like yeah if you were made of money or if you had a money tree growing in your backyard, maybe you could afford to really do everything you could for everyone else now, but you dont (and if you do, please share).
Seriously though, your friend is wrong.
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I thought someone could see where Im coming from. its such short notice! I have rent to pay plus all the bills in the house AND our first payment for the RH is due on Aug 1! so how the hell am I supposed to dish out another few hundred for someone elses wedding? THAT and I got 3 weeks notice!
dazies1011
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Do what you have to do, trust me I understand the money thing but, are you close with her?
Ann 52409
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Sometimes people dont understand and I have noticed that a lot of my friends are acting a little jealous. Try not to talk to her too much about your wedding because she obviously doesn't want to hear about it but, it's okay thats why you have us
Some people aren't going to be as excited as we are and some people wont understand that with such big expenses coming up your priorities are different because you are focused on something else.
DonnaPWhite1124
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People are so quick to call girls bridezillas.....have they ever thought of calling people bridesMAIDzillas?! I mean really. this girls in my wedding party too.....
I've noticed it before, it gets very diva-ish when someone gets married. People talk Sh*t. its ridiculous. thats why I like it on here. We're all more than happy to talk about our day
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Do what you hve to do...send a gift...if she cant take it tough...she sounds like she needs to grow up and understand...Like you said, 3 weeks is not enought notice to save up to give a nice gift, travel, bills all that jazz...im wiht you donna!
DonnaPWhite1124
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and im sorry tho....not for nothing she got married 4 years ago with the same guy. I know she wants a nice big catholic wedding and stuff, but I do too-and its my first time ya know? Part of me wants to go to the wedding it wont kill me that much. but Im being stubborn and my friend is being a jerk!
Well I tell FH that we should try our best to make it to most functions being that we have our engagement party and wedding coming up ... I feel like if I dont go to something, they wont come to ours... but if you don't care about that kinda stuff then do what you feel. She is being really Diva-ish by saying those things 'it's not all about you' because yeah this is a big thing it's YOUR WEDDING DAY! you sound like you have a really crazy group of friends.
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Well Im sorry to hear that...... talk to hear.. face to face... I hate when people pull that email crap bc they dont have the balls to say it to your face.. confront her.. let her know where your coming from... if she's really a good friend she will understand, if not my guess is your better off without her because you dont need that type of negativity around you.... My opinon sounds like the green-eyed monster got the best of her.
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I TOTALLY understand where you are coming from!!!! FH and I have 3 weddings in a row starting in the middle of Oct andthe last wedding I'm a BM so i know how stressed out we are with how much money we are going to be spending in such a short time PLUS trying to save for our wedding PLUS our regular bills! (my throat is starting to close as I think about it) I dont think its selfish of you at all to be concerned about it! At least we have some time to put some money away, your wedding is short notice. Wedding ettiquite doesnt say your gift has to be money, pick something off the registry or buy another nice gift. You have to do what you have to do. Good luck
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O plisss.... people are just jealous my FSIL told me the other day that I was manipulating her brother to do what I want for MY wedding... so don't really pay attention to people they just don't know what they talking about.
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O plisss.... people are just jealous my FSIL told me the other day that I was manipulating her brother to do what I want for MY weding... so don't really pay attention to people they just dont know what they talking about.
I feel your pain i got the how do you know you want to get married lecture from fsil...
