i have a friend from high school, who in high school was my best friend. we talk every now and then, but not like we used to mainly because she moved to Jersey.
so yesterday she texted me & asked if she is in the bridal party. i called her & told her no because i am only including my cousins which she was ok with. but i told her that we would like her to do something at the ceremony & asked if she was planning on attending, which she said yes, i am taking off the entire week from work to help you. then she said that if not during the ceremony she will make a speech at the reception.
i almost fell on the floor. so i nicely said that my sister, (MOH) will be making a speech at the reception. she got annoyed over that & told me that she will work it out with my sister. i can not believe this.
why do people just assume things, like that??
christine2010
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Posted by christine2010
the thing is that she is a real pain in the a-s-s. the type of person that no matter what you tell her she still does as she pleases. we definitely want her to do a reading at church.
i will be giving my sister a heads up about her & we will discuss what she will say to make her get the point that we don't want her giving a speech at the reception.
as far as taking off the entire week of the wedding, i think its a little much. i am only taking the day before off myself.
i was kind of thinking of maybe, just maybe, having her at my house the day of to help out with all the little things. taking care of all the last minute phone calls with the vendors & such. but i have time to think about that.
Yikes! I think that will be a good way to include her--that way she feels important. I'm doing that with a cousin I don't really like that much
Also, speak to your dj/band about not letting her speak--my dj said that under no circumstances does he give the mic to anyone but the bm, moh and fathers/mothers--definitely give them the heads up too!
i already made a note on my band paperwork saying that they are not allowed to give any microphone to anyone. i think i may make them ask a secret question.
DaniandKen2010
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I recently found out that someone who I really haven't spoken to in about 2 years thinks she's in my wedding party.....she's not even on my invite list!!!
maybe she really values your friendship..and even though u arent as close as u once were..she still considers u 1 of her besties.
im sure she doesnt mean any harm. i know shes a bit...'much' but i guess it should be flattering that some1wants to help out as much as she does.. taking a week offf? ehh..kukkkkkkkuuuuu
