Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)

IMO...

(after reading through several posts.)

I find that some comments girls have made on some posts in the past regarding other peoples ideas/styles can be seen as disrespectful.

I just want to take this time to put a friendly reminder out there...

We are all different, come from different backrounds and cultures and have different tastes. Please be careful and respectful when commenting as you never know what can hurt someones feelings.

JMO

WOW it is histerical considering i was thinking the same thing earlier and was gonna post this.

Honestly, i think some people forget that everyone has different tastes, and what works for you doesn't work for others. No need to be so negative about what others are doing, there are nicer ways to say things. If you don't like it you can say oh its just not what im looking for or not a big fan of it or something.

There really is no need to criticize others decisions. I realize that what would work for me wouldn't work for others, and i don't expect people to LOVE everything im doing and agree with all, but luckily its not for them its for ME. Not saying this just about me but ive seen negative comments towards other peoples ideas

Im sure people dont like it when you are told what you are doing is stupid or whatever comments are made. There is always a different way to look at things

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Posted by ItalianBride428

IMO...

(after reading through several posts.)

I find that some comments girls have made on some posts in the past regarding other peoples ideas/styles can be seen as disrespectful.

I just want to take this time to put a friendly reminder out there...

We are all different, come from different backrounds and cultures and have different tastes. Please be careful and respectful when commenting as you never know what can hurt someones feelings.

JMO

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That was really nice for you to remind certain people that they can be hurtful.

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Posted by MikeandJess

I agree. Friends don't let friends drink and type

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that is not true, you let me do it all the time Jessica!!

no but honestly, it is true and if i REALLy dont like something, im more likely to not respond to it

if you have nothing nice to say ..............................

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Posted by Snowflake08

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Posted by MikeandJess

I agree. Friends don't let friends drink and type

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that is not true, you let me do it all the time Jessica!!

no but honestly, it is true and if i REALLy dont like something, im more likely to not respond to it

if you have nothing nice to say ..............................

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LOL well clearly you have a drinking problem

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Posted by MikeandJess

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Posted by Snowflake08

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Posted by MikeandJess

I agree. Friends don't let friends drink and type

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that is not true, you let me do it all the time Jessica!!

no but honestly, it is true and if i REALLy dont like something, im more likely to not respond to it

if you have nothing nice to say ..............................

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LOL well clearly you have a drinking problem

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thanks for telling everyone!!!

as well all know, weddings are an emotional time...girls on here might have been dreaming about these ideas for years...

i think you should rename this thread 'friendly reminder' it is totally not a vent

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Posted by jteach711

I think we all may need a 'friend;y reminder' every once in a while

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or maybe even more often hahaha jk

i think people should just stop thinking everyone should think like them and have the same ideas and even deeper than that, to have the same philosophies in life

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Posted by Snowflake08

LOL well clearly you have a drinking problem

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thanks for telling everyone!!!

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I think you should share

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Posted by angl2001

agreed

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same here.

I totally agree with you girls. Very well said

lol thanks for changing it!

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Posted by ItalianBride428

whew...glad I wasnt the only one thinking this...I was debating whether to post or not...lol

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oh no definitely not the only one...This has been discussed before and i think ALOT of girls feel like that